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    My worst nightmare

    So I received a message around start of October, just read it yesterday tho from a girl I had slept with about 8 years ago. Her and I were friends before and had hung out quite a bit. She's Mormon and after we had fooled around for several days we eventually had sex once. A few days after we met...
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    Work stresses

    Hey all, This site has been an unbelievable resource for me over the years for generally the best advice and support so of course here I am. I figured I would ask here and see if anyone has any input. Last year I went from the trades, I have my welding ticket and did that for about 11 years. I...
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    I am so dumb

    Hey fellas, So I'll try to keep this short as possible. Have you ever literally felt yourself becoming a sucker, but it happens any way? I've been with my gf for almost 5 years, it's been rocky for a lot of it and finally in the last month we've broken up due to her letting herself go and my...
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    Jobs you can do from home/travelling

    Hey guys, I wanted to quickly ask if anyone has some suggestions on jobs that pay decent enough that a guy could do from home or travelling. I'm pretty good with computers but I know I'm going to need some kind of education to accomplish this. I've been welding the last 10 years and I just want...
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    Booked a solo trip

    Hey guys, So I booked and planned a trip that I'll be taking for myself. I have only traveled to Mexico and Cuba and I've decided I've spent too many years throwing money away and not seeing the world. So last summer I made a bucket list and on it was cape town. I'm going for 2 weeks this...
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    waitress giving you their number

    Hey guys, so I have a question. I have a girlfriend, I'm pretty happy with how it's going after a few years so this is kind of irrelevant but I'm curious So I went out for lunch with a buddy today, the waitress seemed pretty friendly, we were friendly back but we were definitely more involved...
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    Ever message your ex?

    Hey I've been wondering this for a couple years and wanted to see what people thought. I dated a girl a little under 10 years ago. First serious relationship, lost virginity etc. I really let this girl walk all over me and if I knew then what I know now it would of been over less than a week in...
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    Any advice for dealing with family?

    I know this forum consists a lot of how to deal with interactions with women and how to be alpha in your daily life with them. But I'm having issues with my brother and I'm just wondering if anyone has any advice on how to deal with it without ending up just ignoring him at family functions and...
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    Bought a house with the girlfriend uhoh

    So before I say anything I already know this wasn't the smartest thing I could of done, but I'll explain my predicament. I've been with my gf for 2.5 years now, we've been through some ups and down with emotions and not enough sex etc. I started looking around to buy my first house that she...
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    what is my problem? bit of a novel sorry

    Hey guys, I'm gonna explain a bit about my situation and hope I can get some insight into what the hell my problem is. So I've been with my girl for just over 2 years. We went through a long stretch of about a year where the sex was a problem, it kinda fell off a cliff for her but we're much...
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    embarrassing question

    Hey guys I've begun to notice something in my relationship that is bothering me and I'm a bit embarrassed to ask for advice or clarification. My gf lives at home still, with her mom and younger brother. She's 24, he's 16. I've noticed that she compliments him more than me, and I'm a bit baffled...
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    pleasing your girl

    Hey guys, I've been with my girlfriend almost 2 years in a committed relationship, 6 months before that we were FWB. The sex when we were FWB was unreal, I would have her gushing multiple times a session, through oral or sex. Over a year ago her sex drive took a nose dive from weight gain and...
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    Cell phones

    Hey fellas, I've been reading the DJ bible, and a lot on these forums. I can't remember where I read it now, but it was something about how you handle yourself when the girl does something you don't like. My girlfriend can't put her phone down. We see each other about once a week and then on the...
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    Lost sex drive/passion

    Hey guys, brand new member here I've been reading around your forum for a bit now in hopes I could fix my problem but decided to join and ask for your help. I met this girl at a concert a couple years ago. At the time I was single and happy. I was talking to multiple women and was enjoying...
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