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    Red Pill Anxiety

    Hi, I have this strange phenomenon, I call it Red pill anxiety. I'll explain it, I want to know if anyone else has it. So what happens, is that I have really "blue pill" "naive" thoughts about something. Then I found out it wasn't any true, and there actually was something bad in reality...
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    LTR isn't interested enough for my needy personality, what to do ?

    When the girl isn't interested enough in you ... 2.5 years LTR. First 2 years she was absolutely obsessed with me, so I had no problems. Now I get frustrated, anxious, and depressed all the time. I don't even have an insane 1itis for her, I don't think she's very hot\interesting\cute\special...
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    Can you internalize the red pill ?

    I do understand the red pill reality logically, to some degree. I know my (and every other) girl might cheat on me. I know she wants to be fvcked brutally by alpha males she finds attractive. I know she's pretending to be cute and vulnerable sometimes (even in bed) to see if I'm a real man who...
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    LTR losing interest, or am I just too needy ?

    I'm with her for almost 2.5 years. The girl used to be extremely clingy and loving for the first 1.5 years, I was a god for her. So maybe after this, normal love seems too cold for me: She doesn't hold me tight when we kiss, hug or fvck. She doesn't tell me a lot about her life. She doesn't...
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    Do you let her shout at you?

    I'm talking about rough arguments, Normally I wouldn't, but after 2 years with an LTR I'm just sick of her pretending to be cute and submissive all the time, plus I don't think I should get excited from her shouting. On the other side, it's disrespectful. There's a fine line between...
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    Escalating a co-worker while having a GF, how ?

    My 2 years ltr is pretty unstable at the moment, I will save you the details, I'm unsure if I want to keep this girl, and probably the reason I do is our history, I feel like there might be some chance things will go back like they were. It feels like we might be unstable from her end too. I...
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    The biggest lesson I've learned about LTRs - Gray zones should be left gray

    Always leave her in doubt when it comes to the gray zones. Gray zones should be left gray. Some examples : If you have 0 intentions to every marry that girl, because she's lazy or whatever, don't let her know that. If she ever asks you about marriage, just answer you don't want to marry at...
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    How can you trust a woman ?

    Personally I was retarded enough for 1.5 years to believe she can't be attracted to anyone else, and she wouldn't let anyone a chance to hit on her indirectly. She always acted like she's my little girl, so I didn't even imagine her feeling attraction for others. :trouble: Realistically, unless...
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    Dealing with ltr's inconsistent behavior

    I had a fight with my 2 years LTR, we had a lot of those in the last months. She lied my dad told her I wasn't home, to find out if I was. She wasn't even suspicious of anything, she just wants to know everything until she gets bored of me, like many women do. I had another big fight with her...
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    Does anybody understands love?

    When I was a total AFC, 5 years ago, I didn't have any question about love. It was obvious and clear. Attraction however, was impossible for me to understand. :o Nowadays, I'm in a 2 years LTR, and love is something very vague that I don't even try to understand... I would like you guys to try...
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