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Hi guys, So my ex sent me this, yet again yesterday : Hey hows things? Have you been getting my texts? You dont have to talk if you dont want, but can you just let me know you're ok? x Well, I haven't replied to his messages for a month now and knowing the guy I dated , one message was...

Hey sorry am back! so this morning, i checked my phone at 9ish and there was a text from the ex bf. asking how i settled into my new pace and anyways, i just want to know if you are ok. not replying. i went ghost on him a little above a month ago . i don't know what to do. i know amanita...

Thanks noyou , I haven't spoken to him since the last time you advice me not to. It's been almost a month. I just went ghost on him. He sent texts which I didn't reply to any and now he choosed to send an email instead. I guess I will stay in the dark.

Hi guys, for anyone who read my last post, I have an update. And for those who don't remember: ex dumped me on the phone in June for lots of reasons( he isn't ready for a relationship, he doesn't want long distance, I complain too much, he doesn't wanna hurt me and lots more). That was after 6...

So my ex just sent me a message asking how my say went. What should I do? Ps: I had moved on but he's the first true relationship I have ever had. Well, I don't think he wants to get back in a relationship with me. But he promised to stay in touch to see how am doing since I haven't got any...

Hi NOYOU: thanks a lot for your messages . I know what you mean and it hurts more to know I know it's a trap but yet it's hard to avoid it. I haven't texted him today so this will be a start of my NC. And if I hear from him, text what should I do? Not reply right?

Hi guys, I lost count but my ex broke up with me on the phone in May. I kept no contact for 3 months and later we started chatting everyday by text a couple of months ago. He's not well and is under going severe counselling. He was a nice guy so I don't think its a good idea to ignore him at...

day 60 i have been busy with work and uni. have been on a few dates but for some reason i choice to not see the persons again. there are emotional days when i think of the ex and why he ended things with me and if he is happy and better off without me. some times the thoughts are for a second...

so am on day 18 of the NC. would have been day 36 only i broke it with an email.well, been busy, he pops up in my mind once in a while and some times certain things remind me of him. never replied to his email though and he hasn't posted my shoes so i guess he threw them away. i some times feel...

from experience, i think you should have listened to the advice from these good men above. am a gal and in this case, of you just didn't reply, she will stay worried and min most cases want you back. anyways, stay strong

day 11 well this would have been day 29 only i broke the contact rule on day 18 and started all over. well, fair to say some days i go by without thinking about my dump ex. i have been chatting with a few guys, picking up some interest. oh i also got a promotion at work in two different...

Now I realise why you understood me better Colette. You are female too . Hehhehe I thought you were a guy. Most people on here are!

oh my God. thanks for such an encouraging note. am glad i came on here. for a moment i felt bad but i am and will get over it. and will better myself a million time. thanks a lot guys xx

So I sent that email to my ex after he broke up with me on the phone. I broke my NC after 18 days :-(This is the email Hey! I know this is a bit random, but I just wanted to say thanks for all the great times we spent together. I've learned a lot from our relationship, and I'm moving on. I...

Fact is accepted, was accepted before and after I sent email. Am better off, I safes more, can do me more, joined the gym, way ahead in my Uni work, more relaxed. I know what you mean. Thanks and I really appreciate you telling me all this.

Oh wow! How long since your breakup?

Thanks Colette. We all may bring our dumping stories on here and explain but only us, personally know the complete details about how it all went down. The bit we explain is the part where we all got dumped and how we felt and how we are moving on. What am I saying? There's a lot to my breakup...

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It's amazing how I came on here to seem for advice but instead learned what will for ever remain precious to me. Yes, after 18 days I sent an email to clarify things. It's was brief and straight to the point. I enjoyed the relationship and I learned a lot from it but then I am moving on and I...