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Do you actually still want to approach her? I've been in the same situation, but I did the approach in a club and didn't actually told her that I recognized her from before. She wasn't interested. I think the situation is too unnatural when you know a lot about her that you can't tell her.

I'm really no ******** expert but I think that the second part means that you shouldn't read too much into that she gave you her number. She could've said it for her own comfort, that she needed to feel that it was no big deal for her. I'm not sure about the first part. Could be that she...

Thanks for all the tips! Because it happened just after I'd been reading the posts about not having more respect for other people than you have for yourself. When they called me names I realised that I cared what they thought. Why should I do that if they keep calling me names? That's just...

It's very difficult for me because I get so upset when I hear it so it's difficult not to show it. I feel like I'm getting a little too old to beat people up about it, but on the other hand, these people should be old enought to not say these things. I could never make this nick a part of...

I would appreciate some advice! I have this bad nickname that some people have been calling me since I was young. They think I look like a retarded person in a tv series. I really hate it when they do call me that, but somehow the word has spread and everybody in my town seem to know about it...

This is a great post! The hard part for me is to make people follow me. I didn't have this problem 10 years ago, so I'm sure I can change it. I try, but it's hard.

That could have been me three years ago! I was almost that bad. Since I found this page I know what I must do and I try very hard to do it. That guy also knows deep inside what he has to do, but he won't. I bet he will find his way to this forum in a few years...

That is some crazy ****!! :D So... how do you do the breathing exercises?

You could go bowling or play pool...

She definitely was a one-itis, and then I forgot about her. But since I saw her again a few weeks ago everything came back to me. Of course I've read the bible and know everything you say... I just need to hear it! I probably had a weak moment when I posted my main post! But... I think that...

It's over a year ago that I saw this girl for the first time. I was an AFC and I didn't know about this place (it was because of her that I found this great forum). It was at the local club and one friday or saturday I decided that I'll have to give it a try... so I went up to her and asked...

I went clubbing again yesterday with a friend. Anyway, the last few times I've been out, I've approached girls in the bars (and even in the mens room :) ). This time I decided to try out the dance floor. I didn't do very well. I didn't approach the first 2 girls that started dancing around...

Hehehe, nice replies! I love this site! :)

Some girls won't like you, some girls will. Try getting EC first and smile, if they smile back - go ask them how they're doing. If they give you the bïtchy "who do you think you are" look - forget about them. And if you want to try talking to girls that doesn't show any interest, you...

Hmmm I used to. But then I realized that I wouldn't get anywhere if I didn't become aggressive. Now I get thoughts like "she seems to think that I just want to be friendly or just talk". Maybe my mind is just creating another problem for me to stop feeling guilty about not being more aggressive...

Thank you for all the encouraging answers, this forum is great! :) I was first going to write that I think it's both what I say and how I say it. But when I thought about it a little more I came up with something else. When I don't have a girl around I probably seem relaxed and interesting...

Same problem as usual. I don't get anywhere. I went clubbing again the other day. I was approached by 5 girls in one night, I think that's a new record for me. Anyway I couldn't get them anywhere. Their IL seemed so high, asking me a lot of questions, giving me the hungry eyes and so. I just...

If you just stare at someone then it get's a little spooky. You need to smile at her and wave, or instead of waving you could send other emotions to her through your face expression. Practice, and don't forget to smile!

I accidentally ignored a girl totally in a harsh way a week ago. Now I need to talk to her again (we will be at the same place at the same time tomorrow...). I'm interested in her sister so I need her on my side. Anyway it feels awkward to start talking to her because I know that she'll do her...

You have to approach immediately!! I've done the same misstake over and over again. I was at a club last friday, and I saw a girl staring at me. So I gave her a smile and noded my head, and then I ignored her (because I was in a complicated discussion with a friend). That's just not good enough...