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Firstly, I don’t need the moral lecture. I’ve made my choice. Here’s the situation. I love(d) my girlfriend of 3 years but I treated her like ****. I used to get verbally abusive and was a major *******. One night I got angry and told her to leave me alone and that I didn’t want to be with...

I read sh*t like this and realise you guys don't have a clue. My gf has moved mountains to be with me. Most people on this site are losers who want everyone else to be as miserable as they are. I only bother posting here because I know I'm getting the worst case scenario opinion...

Had a conversation with the missus yesterday. She said she understands my POV although initially didn't see it like that. She gets that it looks like he could be trying to make moves on her as he is basically inviting her to an event where he can DHV (he powerlifts 215kg) and even though...

The thing is until the last month she has been pretty damn respectful and I have had no problem putting my foot down when I needed to. If I did want to break up with her over it how would I frame it because I know most of you guys get where I'm coming from but I think if I just said "I'm...

How can I do this without arousing suspicion and have her hypocritically asking where I am and what I'm doing?

True. Massive red flag. But don't know if it's worthy of a straight up dump without more substantial evidence.

No she didn't come to think of it. I called her out on that and she said she wants to have friends outside of the relationship.

My gf is pretty in to the gym and she got herself a personal trainer about a year ago. They ended their business relationship a few months ago but he still texts her random workouts or diet plans and gives her the occasional free session since they attend the same gym so they're on good...

I would disagree. Recently had a break from the gf, signed up to Tinder on the Monday and was smashing chicks by Friday. And I was only using Tinder when taking a dump or waiting for public transport. It really is an effortless lay if you know what you're doing. I would steer clear from...

I see this trope commonly spouted but it is bad advice IMO for the reasons I mentioned above. The potential fallout is ten times as bad. Especially if the husband is a raging AFC - AFC does NOT mean spineless. There are plenty of AFC husbands who are in prison for shooting their wives and...

Hey brother. You will receive no judgement from me as I have accepted the nature of men and that pure monogamy is almost entirely beneficial to the woman and the woman alone. As long as you provide and care for your family and love your wife and kids then that's all you can really ask...

This isn't true. I have a history of success with women but honestly even if you're good looking you still have to be social and get out there, which honestly does get a bit tiring. Yeah, probably this. When you've been in a relationship for as long as I have it's easy to get comfortable...

She is now going out again this Saturday! She weakly tried to invite me, only because I asked her what she was doing on Saturday night - it's an all girls night out so she knows I wouldn't be interested. Oh and one gay guy. I say it'll be a bit weird if it's just me with a bunch of girls...

Had a big fight with the girlfriend a few days ago. It was my fault but it was a kind of continuation of a disagreement we had had previously. I had made plans with a few mates on the Friday before Valentine's day to go for drinks. So I told her she should do something similar and then...

You're right. I just came back from visiting a prostitute (before reading this post) and I am so glad I did it. It's like a weight has been lifted. Now I can get back to my real relationship without the desire for variety eating away at me. In fact it makes me appreciate my gf even more as I...

Not to be rude bro, but only the last two sentences of your post actually touch on this thread topic. The rest of your post isn't helpful since I don't intend to get married. My post was pretty straightforward. Many men will get bored in their relationship. There is a reason why...

Cut the moral outrage and actually explain what is supposedly wrong with my premise. No one has poked holes in it so far.

This in no way addresses the point of my post. Rollo is married. That doesn't mean that in the time he's been married he has been faithful and even if he were that doesn't detract from the logical conclusion of his post. If you - a high value man- choose to be wholly monogamous and faithful...

30 is a really interesting phase that gives you time to reflect. I've realised many things about myself and dating over the past few years. One important realisation is that I will never be the kind of guy who is 100% happy to be in a monogamous relationship. Men have a natural desire to...

Firstly I’m not looking for a feel good answer. I want the truth. Been with my girlfriend for over a year. Never cheated or even put myself in a situation to allow it to happen and have always expected the same. My gf and I have an argument and it basically ends with me saying “screw this...