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    New plate

    Okay so I potentially might have a new plate...started flirty text here and there. Pulled the number from the bar, she's a mutual friend of a friend, we all went out. I was preoccupied with work and what not thoughout the week...she actually mentioned we should grab drinks this weekend. A...
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    Controlling the Ego

    In order to heal, you gotta feel. Emotions are tools or byproducts of our interactions? The more I go through my journey the more I realize the human mind can and will do what it pleases if you don't consciously stop it. There is you and then there is the mind, ego runs majority of your...
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    Aftermath

    Fellow DJs I need some advice.... Long story short, LTR ended of 2 years, after we moved in together. Timeline ---started talking/hooking up which lead to more dates and beginning to be main plate. We started to get close and then she had to move back home. ---long distance for a year...
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    closer to the red pill

    Back to sosuave, I thought I had a grasp of the game and things I learned from the forums. I was wrong. The last 2 years have been an emotional rollercoaster for me, some extreme highs and very low lows. Decided to share my story.... I dated a BPD single mother for 3 years on and off, the...
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    Getting stuff back

    How do you guys handle retrieving stuff post breakup? My ex has had my watch since the breakup, thing is I never mentioned the watch to her and took her two weeks to finally reach out and say she has it. Was arranging to pick it up at her place but schedules conflicted, we both work near...
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    New Years

    I'm pretty much beyond confused at this point I don't know what to think and should I just say **** it. Nye me and my gf planned to stay in and keep it chill. So I show up and immediately notice she's in a bad mood...so I try to cheer her up to no avail and it starts to put me in a bad...
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    Bipolar

    Okay I'm pissed off and confused. My girl and i were watching tv tonight I recognize a girl I know on this show and make a comment about it. Like oh **** that's so and so that's hella crazy...she's attractive girl also, but is only a mutual friend of one of my friends girlfriend anyways....I...
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    Thoughts??

    So girlfriend and I pretty much realized we aren't compatible and constant fights and no major growth in the relationship has strained us for awhile...partially my fault due to commitment issues but I do love her. Current dilemma one part of our relationship never had issues was sex...sex...
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    Need some help guys

    So last night I went against the Don Juan code and lost some self control and not sure how I can save face. Gf had a guy friend whom she worked with and was always buddy buddy with. I know how guys are and he clearly showed interest from what I gathered from her telling me and Facebook...
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    some clarification

    So last weekend was my birthday, girlfriend took me out on fri night expensive dinner, and I told her I was planning on going out with friends on sat that she and her girlfriend should come. Bottle service and a club in the city I live near SF, long story short, me and my friends get there...
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    Odd behavior

    So little confused here.... Went out with a friend of mine to play pool and drinks, she and I been friends for awhile but always do some form of flirting but nothing has happened. So tonight after few drinks she's doing lots of kino, at one point basically sitting in my lap. So I think to...
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    Avoiding orbit

    So there's this female friend of mine, always been somewhat flirty. I had a gf at the time and never was too big on cheating, some disagree but I typically won't go out of my way to purposely cheat. Anyways, since I'm single now lately she's been bringing food, paying for drinks, etc. I tease...
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    Just a thank you

    Honestly I wanted to thank everyone here, especially dgwizdal, gotED, lotus effect, jariel, smooth moves, backbreaker and many others. I don't post as much but have private messaged many of you and I truly appreciate the advice. I've been dealing with this relationship for the last year...
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    Observation

    Been doing some reflecting last few days and wanted to share. About three weeks ago friends and I went out to a local bar, I was being indifferent and really just enjoying my time. Approached a hb6.5 ended up number close and some kino and flirting throughout the night. Three weeks goes...
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    They always come back

    So since the last break, I've gone nc almost 2.5 months now and just like clockwork I received a text from the ex today. For those who have followed me and "argument went wrong" thread this is the same girl. I've actually been really happy lately got some new plates and just been enjoying my...
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    Argument went horrible

    Okay so I thought talking about something that made me feel uncomfortable was doing the right thing. Gf took it more as an attack. I almost feel in the wrong now LOL crazy Background: I've expressed I'm not too fond of club scene when we ain't together as I feel a "girlfriend" shouldn't be...
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    Weird or motive?

    Okay guys I'm needing some feedback about somethin, I find kinda weird or maybe I'm trippin. This is second time my gf has told me she's spotting/on period prior to going out. I'm doing my own thing tonight and she's going out with friends. She just text me out they blue saying she's...
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    Potential sh*t test?

    How would you guys handle this? Scenario: me and gf work very close to a mall and she lives outta of town as well as I do. I'm working today and she texted me her purse got shipped to the store and if I could please pick it up. (I'm seeing her tmw) she doesn't work until Tuesday. So I...
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    Road rage chick

    So me and one of my plates were driving to get lunch earlier today and I was def taken back by what happen. She was driving and there was some construction in the road and some dude behind us wasn't breaking to let us into lane merge and she lost it. I mean like screaming curse words at him...
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    Avoided emotional tampon situation or being an jerk?

    So my gf had court today for with her daughters father over legal matters and visitation. She called me last night seemed very not in mood to talk and I asked her about tmw she said she didn't want to talk about it. I know she was bothered by this court matter but I wasn't going to press. So...
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