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true it's just crazy because she's so friggin direct with her wants and sexuality. It's like she knows she's a woman, attractive and desired and throws it in your face and watches to see if you squirm and if you do you're "boring" she's like i usually think most of our regulars are boring, or...

So this bar I go to near my house, i always see the same bartenders and I'm cool with them all. It's cool because i get a lot of DHV because they're all attractive and I enjoy the company when I'm there. I've been told the other bartenders see me as "cool as hell". even though most of the time I...

I get what you're all saying. I just figured that i'd come back and be friends with her. I don't really care about the outcome here. (we've only been speaking again for 3 1/2 weeks) It sucks if we can't have a friendship cuz that's what we were before. She wanted to toss me so deep in the...

I keep almost the same amount of distance. Although I did question her distance a couple days ago. She said I think about you every day i'm just going through some things right now. And lately i want to talk to you but I don't even know what to say anymore. But right now its a 1:1 I...

She broke it off with me and went back to her ex. her reason was that I wasn't in it 100% which was true. I was maybe 70% in it. Also she doesn't like that I do have friends that are women and most of them are pretty hot. She also didn't like that I had young women hitting me up. I'm 32...

So this is a strange one maybe I can get some perspective here that my gut isn't already telling me. long story short i went NC. I didn't talk to her for 5 weeks after a pretty big fight in where i left her with mutual friends to find her own ride home. I took some time and honestly got over...

Just because you're banging a chick does not mean you'll keep her. that's an old way of thinking. if a chick like sex then its just a fun thing to do. she doesn't have to be forming emotional connections while having sex with you. Which is why Sex isn't as important as an emotional...

there are women who want their men with hair and those who like men without hair then there are A LOT of women who don't give a damn as long as you own your look. if you got thin hair or a receding hairline don't cover it up embrace it and I think that positive energy will flow through you. of...

haha touche. although that would piss me off if that was me. I basically just served you for free. Maybe only tip 1 dollar for the 4 beers total. and then follow up with result. although every time outside of sunday night i've always tipped 3 dollars for 20-28 dollar tabs. So i've actually...

I think i'm not articulating my demeanor around her that well. I know her name already and i still call her "bartender" she grins every time I do it. Why do I call her bartender? I dunno. I tend to flirt that way like calling people princess or whatever comes to mind. I'm not outcome...

i doubt if there was a chance i messed it up. Now what would be weird is if actually cared about her reaction to my tip and went in there the next day she was working and ask if she liked the tip. THAT would have messed it up. But considering i probably won't see her until a week later or...

lol what's funny is that's exactly what i was going to do. If she gave me her number which honestly i think she will if she has any sort of attraction. i wasn't going to call or text and just show up sometime for lunch a few days later or my regular sunday night.

lmao. as i said i've never left her a big tip before that night. and she blundered around the really drunk dude even dropping a glass all over herself and him laughing about it. i shut him up. she looked upset after that and it was getting busy. her emotional state you can't fake. that's...

Tab was 48 bucks I left her a 40 dollar tip. So just under 50%. And I put a cheesy smily face next to it lmao. And i would normally agree with you. but Maybe i didn't make it as obvious in my quick story about this bartender. but i never leave a big tip. in fact i usually under-tip her because...

your right i mean why not ask her at least then i'll stop thinking about if she does like me. i guess i'm just looking for a sure fire sign that tells me. Come get it.

Need some insight! TLDR is at bottom i've been coming into this bar a lot for lunch because its right next to the office. lately this bartender has taken notice of me. I've seen her before but we never really spoke. I just got my drink and my shot from her. At first they were just...

you are absolutely right man. i have no clue wtf i was expecting. You should understand that over the time i've known her strangers i've vented to who struck me up in drunken conversation at bars have said what you and sosuave have set. ditch this chick she doesn't care about you and only...

maybe, but history suggest she will come back there's something about me she keeps around. and no i don't shower her with compliments or bend to her will. this is me not bending. i'm resisting. you are right though. i should have just casually faded out. But i didn't i made a passing back...

how do they reek of desperation? i made a back handed compliment. she said what she said. Asked why i was being a downer. i laughed and said dude go be with the people who mean something to you and not the dude you text on the side. she said way to push me away :( i never responded back...

So I've posted about this chick off and on but lately there's been no reason to post because for all intents and purposes things were going great. We hang out, we get physical she loves to flirt and be touchy feely with me and there are times where, And here's where i drop the bomb. that the...