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Being 30 and without close friends or a social circle, I'm pretty much utterly alone at all times. My days are spent working or stuck in traffic, and the weekends are just me on my own trying to pass the time. I've tried to go out and meet people but at my age everybody is established in their...

So I turned 30 recently and I've come to the realization that I'm an empty shell and living simply to exist. I have a decent career and I make enough money to live comfortably, but it all seems senseless and futile. Part of it is likely because I don't have a child or spouse to look after. I...

I know it's faggy to be asking about one girl so I'll keep this brief. Met her about a month ago. Approached and number closed. She's 20 years old. We start talking and she tells me she has a boyfriend. I gave zero ****s and eventually she broke up with him while spending time with me...

“There are over (insert ungodly number here) women on the planet.” In the Manosphere, the above is the default response for anybody suffering through oneitis, scarcity, a dry spell, or just plain feeling down and out. On the surface it seems to make a great deal of sense. Why get hung up on one...

Online dating. Whipped up a quick jerk profile on match.com last night. Today I already have broads emailing me. Plates are spinning and b1tches are grinning, and the whole time I'm in my slippers scratching my balls. Beats getting stuck in traffic in the hopes of maybe running into an...

So a couple months ago my...err, former girlfriend had an abortion. You can read up on the background here if you care to: http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=212272 Ever since then it has been hard times. It started out with her moving back to her father's and withdrawing from me...

Long story short, met a girl and she fell in love. Really sweet, cooks, cleans, wants me to marry her. About a year in she is pregnant. I tell her that it is ultimately her choice whether to keep it or not. She is young and we both aren't really financially secure enough to raise a child...

This kind of thing happens to me all the time, but I'll use this past Friday night as an illustrative example of my dilemma: I hit the bar, open a set of 3 girls. I'm only really attracted to the HB9 blonde, an eventually I have her undivided attention. Things are going great, I feel like...

Been seeing a girl who has a tendency to spiral into depression over her work/life situation. When she gets really moody, I tend to pull back and let her stew. I'm becoming paranoid about losing her attraction. This morning she was in a real state so I left her place without saying...

Let's say you're in your late twenties, you've lost touch with all of your old friends from years ago, and you live in a relatively dull environment. Every night you find yourself with nothing to do but watch movies at home or whatever. How do you get out of this rut? Where do you even...

Here's the story:http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=189316 Been in strict no contact for a week now, all ties have been cut, and I'm receiving text messages from her. I know that standard operating procedure is to ignore ignore ignore. But I have to admit I feel a little bad...

So last night I was drunk and alone and pulled a very beta move. Texted the ex. She played with me a little. Me: Got plans tonight? Her: Why do u ask? Me: For an answer, why else Her: Why, do you? Me: I did, they fell through, working on a plan b Her: Oh so you...

Long story short, my ex loaned me a good sum of money for a car back when we were a thing. I resisted at first, but she pretty much insisted on it. Me being an eager idiot, I took the money. Afterwards, I had been living with her and making monthly payments. Well, eventually everything that...

I've recently been dating a girl. She's ok I guess. Lately I feel an intense dislike for women. I see them as disposable objects and resent any attempts they make to gain my affection. Some background, my mother abandoned my family when I was a teenager (she was probably BPD) and my 3...

After nearly 2 months of brooding in my basement, drowning in cheap wine and cigarettes, frantically reading "HOW 2 GET MAH EX BACK" threads, I've resolved to quit being such a b1tch and begin the process of moving on. Right now I am at rock bottom. I truly feel like a man with nothing to...

Girl I've been seeing casually has some weird traits. 1) She picks at her skin. A lot. Always worrying about small blemishes and constantly digging at them. 2) She drinks vodka a lot. Almost every night. 3) She's obsessed with models and being ultra-skinny. She already is very thin...

Regardless of whether it's wise to call women out on their bull****, I'm curious as to how you might interpret their reactions when you do. I've come to the realization that women hate the truth, and hate to be confronted with it. Before I went no contact with my ex, I calmly explained to her...

Consensus on these boards seems to be that anger is a negative emotion and acting on it will only harm one in the long run. I'm recovering from a pretty humiliating and devastating break-up (for me, not her obviously), and I find that the only thing that gets me out of bed and moving forward...

Seduced a young single mother who works at a cafe about 3 years ago. Used all the classic PUA tactics, got her to fall in love with me, and eventually moved into her place (I know, I know). Things were pretty good, though I never really felt "in love" at the time. What I really enjoyed was...