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If you knew nothing of it before hand, I would take this as blatant cheating and disrespect. I would walk away from her without a sound... no explanation, nothing. My ex-wife did this to me... Went to lunch with a 'friend' - She did so behind my back knowing my stance on other-sex friends...

Sounds like a decent catch... There's no damned reason you need to be in love with her yet. You've only been together for a few months or so. Take your time... They usually 180 and get all crazy on you at about month 8, so you have that to look forward to.

I have to admit, it's been years since I cold-approached a woman face-to-face. Today, I was at an outdoor festival when I saw my brother talking to a girl (maybe 10 years younger than I). She was good-looking and I didn't see a ring. I ask my bro who she is - she's my brother's son's...

I disagree... You should give her some stupid, cutesy, funny, cheap gift. Something you'd find on the counter at a convenient store - no more than $1. Be a little more bold and set yourself apart.

Listen to Jophil. It sounds like your first bpd... awe...

Who knows for certain without more info... I don't think you should keep trying to convincer her to like you though. Here's what I would do... Totally cut her off - complete NC. There's more to this story than she is telling you. Perhaps she's not over another dude or met someone else...

DAS - You break the cycle by quitting the game, if only for a while. You take that energy and motivation and turn in on your new best friend and love - you. I'm there right now, I've had enough of the bs for a while. Divorced... bpd nutter... whacko second relationship... same bull5hit...

Facebook is a turd. I never 'friend' any woman I'm involved with romantically, nor do I accept from them. If they don't like that tough ta-tas. Agreed... too much drama on there. I'm totally amazed at the amount of personal info people share out there.

It's not just mutual friends, but she may have listed herself as attending a same school or company or something stupid like that... You have to do what Facebook tells you too though. They know everything that is best for us and they are watching your every move...

DAS - Hey brother, there ain't no rules or justice in this game, so don't expect there to be. You're right that it can be terribly frustrating. I've had some luck, but like everyone else here, got my ass kicked a few times too. You have to stop caring about women so much. This is going to...

Welcome to the world post-crazy-chick. Can't make sense of crazy so stop trying. Look in the mirror and ask WTF is broken in me for allowing that 5hit to go on so long...

Igetit is right on. OR you could call bawling like a little girl crying, saying over and over "WHY? WHY? WHY?! Three days you didn't text! WHY?" But, I'm guessing Igetit's advice may work too...

What does it say? Don't respond yet...

I agree somewhat, but if he contacted her last, the ball is in her court - don't contact her yet. Wait a few more days - if no contact still, you could give her one last call (I personally wouldn't). If she's still flaky then, write it off as a loss.

Could she be a bit disappointed that you didn't bang her when you stayed over? Thinking maybe you should have made more of an attempt there?? I'm thinking if you stayed over night and didn't have sex, somethings wrong there... not necessarily with you... If she's bold enough to let you...

Sorry about that, just re-read what I posted and see how you may have taken offense to it. I guess what I eas trying to say is that you sound like a douchebag. What kind of girl could she be to put up with that? Do you really think she's quality if she puts up with it? Turn the tables...

For her to be contacting you is an indication that she has low standards and does not value quality people. It seems like a good match; give her a call...

It sounds like you don't want to hurt her and that's cool, but you have to stop that at some point or it'll drive you nuts. As Captain said, you do not have any obligation to her - you were both consenting adults. She's young... Maybe she is torn because of her faith too?? Who knows...

Yes, but I never inhale.

Walk up to her with you willy hanging out your open zipper; they love it. I know this is going to sound uber-lame, but you should be able to get the las started by making good eye-contact with her. Let your eyes linger a little long (just don't stare or she'll think you're a freak). Get close...