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I'm an introvert myself and always found it hard to show high social value when I'm in a mixed group of girls and guys. During such situations, the extroverted alpha guys are the ones doing and leading the convo, and I'm sure those of you introverts here can agree on this. What happens is that...

Hi all, I seem to have this issue all my life but only got about to trying to fix it recently. In group conversations, usually the talking pattern will be one person talking, the rest listening and occasionally contributing here and there. My problem is : when the person talking has paused...

Ok, so I'm part of the local community group that hosts events for tourists visiting my area. Its a nonprofit, volunteery kind of organization. You just volunteer your time when you're free, no salary whatever. Now, we have this monthly "meeting" for organizers, where we sit and have dinner...

There's this girl I can't figure out. She's about 8.5+ out of 10. Think Blake Lively at her prettiest + 2 points. Almost all pretty girls I've seen, they're almost always extroverted, love fun, hang around with lots of guys etc. And even if they're not loud, they'll always be in places where...

Hi all, I need some insight on this new company I just joined recently. Overally, everything about the company is perfect. I mean, really perfect. Except for one really disturbing issue : the office is too quiet. You guys ever been to libraries? Especially the most deserted area in the...

Ok, so I met this chick recently at a closed-social-circle sort of social setting (ie: language class, dance class sort of settings where everyone knows everyone unlike the pub/club scene). So far, the vibes are good, but then overall, I think she's always giving positive vibes to people in...

Recently, I noticed something (albeit a bit late) that I believe most guys here are aware. Why is it that in any given social setting, older women (approx 35 and above) seem to be more friendly and open to conversations? I mean, you don't even have to use any DJing whatever, you can just talk...

Hi all, Earlier this year when I started working on myself, attending dance classes often, reading self-help books, befriending positive fun people, staying away from put-downers etc, I've become a lot more lively, cheerful and happy nowadays. However, externally, this kind of energy...

Hi guys, How do you guys let girls know that you've interesting exciting hobbies / life and not just a boring average guy? Like, how do you insert those topics into the convo naturally without sounding like a show-off? Tips? I realized that humans being humans, we tend to be more judgmental...

Hi all, Is it true that when a girl looks at you first, or establish eye contact with you first, it generally means they're either ready for you to approach them or they're ready to talk with you? Recent cases in mind: in a social setting like a cooking class, or a dance class where...

Hi all, There's this problem that has bugged me for some time which I just brushed off in the past: the baby face issue ( http://www.buzzfeed.com/robynwilder/problems-anyone-with-a-baby-face-will-relate-to#38fse8e ) I got told recently by some new people I met that I look 10+ years younger...

Hi all, I went to a meetup.com event (which was about tv shows and movies) as I'm always curious what it's like. Generally, the people were all friendly and nice. More girls than guys which is good, but the type of girls (and guys there) seems to all fall into the AFC / goody-two-shoes type if...

Hi all, One thing has come to my mind recently. Every time when I leave the dance session, I always feel super hyper, super powerful like you know, you feel like you can handle anything in the world type of feeling. It's this kind of super hyper feeling that gives you the guts to talk to any...

Hi all, I've 1 account on OKCupid and Match.com. The visitor stats are as follows: 1) OKCupid: 8 people view me. 1 message me. 2) Match.com: 9 people viewed me. 1 sent me a wink. This sort of stats is bad right? Anyone has any experience in these? Because if I'm really that desirable, then...

I think I'm now facing a ****blocker. My situation is: -I flirt with Girl A a lot and kind of neglected her good friend, Girl B -I flirt and tease Girl A sometimes in front of Girl B -Girl B seems to have an inferiority complex from what I observed about her, like always complaining that her...

Ok, come this week (Fri), some of the female colleagues want me to show them my high school photos, and they'll share theirs to me as well. Problem is: I don't have any photos from high-school or college cos' I'm a loner back then and don't take photos. The only photos I took were those in...

Today, I was talking to 2 female friends and one of them (Girl A, HB8.5) was going into a dance competition, and I asked her whether she'll be wearing those skin-tight translucent ballet spandex so that I can see through something. She just giggle a little and then Girl B (HB5.5) cut in, and...

As you guys may know, if you're doing C+F or some jokes, sometimes it's good to keep a stern straight face as you're telling it to dramatically increase the tension, and in turn, make the things you say even funnier. However, sometimes, for some reason, as I'm saying it, I couldn't help but...

Ok, imagine you're going out to some exhibition with two female friends, and both will bring her boyfriends along, and they ask you out as well, but you're an AFC / DJ-in-training. So, it's like: Girl #1 and boyfriend Girl #2 and boyfriend You So, would you go? I'm not sure if I...

Ok, so I've made some major improvements these couple of months in that I can actually make chicks laugh and flirt and all. I was so happy with myself that I felt like a God, I felt that life was really great, everything is smooth and sweet. I felt like I'm a real DJ, I'm a natural-born talent...