Hi all,
I seem to have this issue all my life but only got about to trying to fix it recently. In group conversations, usually the talking pattern will be one person talking, the rest listening and occasionally contributing here and there.
My problem is : when the person talking has paused and it's others to talk, I almost always start talking at the same time as another person, so I just shut up to let the other person talk, and talk and talk, eventually, the topic drifts onto something else and my turn is forgotten etc.
Anyone encounter this? If so, how do you fix this? As in, how do you get your chance to talk in a group convo without always starting at the same time as some other people? Is there some kind of body language or instinct to watch out for to detect whether someone else in the group is gonna talk next?
I'm more of an introvert person and function much better with 1-to-1 situations though.
I seem to have this issue all my life but only got about to trying to fix it recently. In group conversations, usually the talking pattern will be one person talking, the rest listening and occasionally contributing here and there.
My problem is : when the person talking has paused and it's others to talk, I almost always start talking at the same time as another person, so I just shut up to let the other person talk, and talk and talk, eventually, the topic drifts onto something else and my turn is forgotten etc.
Anyone encounter this? If so, how do you fix this? As in, how do you get your chance to talk in a group convo without always starting at the same time as some other people? Is there some kind of body language or instinct to watch out for to detect whether someone else in the group is gonna talk next?
I'm more of an introvert person and function much better with 1-to-1 situations though.