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    looks vs personality

    hey guys, its been a while since I've posted but its because I've been putting all the good stuff i learned here to practice. i'm currently w a girl that absolutely adores me. i control the frame, she's considerate, generous, and to be honest, she pretty much has what i'm looking for in a LTR...
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    girl stringing me along for attention?

    this girl I had slept with a month ago hit me up last night to meet up for drinks. I had previously gone no contact after seeing her going home w some other dude 3 weeks ago. it was never anything serious w me and her, a fwb at the most. anyway, when she hit me up, I was just planning to try...
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    making the girl wait for sex - your thoughts

    I wanted to hear your guys' thoughts on making the girl wait for sex. For instance, i would take a girl out on a first date and when i drop her off at her place, i politely decline coming in if she offers. Idea is it definitely shows high value and that she ain't the only girl in the world...
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    first time hooking up w a divorced chick and now she flakes

    Hey guys, so i had my first hookup w someone in my extended social circle who was recently divorced. She was dtf on the first night after we went clubbing, but i broke my condom and didnt have a spare. after that night tho, she seemed really interested, txted me how she can't wait to see me...
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    after i friendzoned a girl, do i still have a chance to get with her?

    exactly what the title says. I met a girl in late january that now i regret not hooking up with. i was going through some personal stuff at the time and picking up girls wasn't even on my mind. we got drunk at a club together and i should have made out with her, but i was so preoccupied with my...
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    stay friends with ppl that might have cheated?

    so this might be a little off topic. basically, i think two of my friends hooked up with each other, which isn't a problem, except one of them has a boyfriend. In my final semester of my master's program, my guy friend got really close with my female friend that was in a relationship. whereas...
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    sh!t test or offer to hookup?

    ran into an old flame at a bar. it's been a over a year, so there was no awkwardness or anything. i was buying a round of drinks for my friends, when she came up to me, so i politely offered to get her a drink too. she looked at me and said, " will you take care of me when I'm drunk?" i...
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    is she worth keeping?

    before I get into this, I wanna say this website had opened my eyes since I found it. I've learned so much about being a man, and how to get women to chase me. but my goal isn't to bed thousands of women. I want to be married and have kids, and I will use my DJ skills to find quality, not...
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    tips on keeping a girl?

    hey guys, since i found this site a year ago, i've definitely improved in the ladies department. still making mistakes, and still learning, but lately, i've noticed that i really have trouble keeping the girls i want. the last two girls that i would have wanted to be exclusive with all broke it...
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    LMR and being aggressive/persistent in bed

    hey DJs. trying to maximize my sexy-time here, so I've got a question. I know that most girls will put up LMR because they don't want to be slutty, and that you have to make them want it more than you to get past that. "ie, oh you don't feel like it? that's fine, let's watch tv" At the same...
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    missed her hints about exclusivity?

    hey guys, there's this girl that i've been hooking up with since aug to now. lately she has been acting cold, so I've backed off. Since I go to school with her, I still say hi and have the occasional fluff conversation with her. I've asked about this on here before, and the consensus was "don't...
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    saw a pic of girl i'm hooking up getting close with a friend of mine at the club

    hey guys, i've been hanging out/ hooking up with a girl in my class since school started about a month ago. until now, she seemed pretty cool and i would like to move down that relationship path. last night, she went to a club with some of her friends and my mutual friends. ( i didn't go...
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    should i amog?

    been hooking up with this girl recently and she's really good friends with one of my female friend (let's call her X). the thing is, one of X's friend is a player. he flirts and will try to sleep with every girl he meets. he's definitely not my "bro" in the sense that he would back off if i told...
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    should i call out a female friend?

    hey guys, i know this isn't dating related, but with all the aggregate experience here, i'd figure it's worth getting your guys' input. so one of my closer female friends has been acting like a spoiled b*tchy princess lately. harshly judging people by their looks, always asking her other guy...
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    how long before you text them? does it matter

    hey guys, i met a couple of girls during an orientation event my school held for the new class. i got a few numbers from girls that said they'd be down to go out to the bars with us after the event. (it's pretty easy pick up - talk fluff, - hey we're gonna hit a bar later tonight, you should...
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    how often do you approach and where?

    outside of doing the bootcamp, how often do you guys approach? and how often do you do it at the same place? there's this borders i go to study and read at, so i plan on starting there. problem is, i don't want to seem like that guy who's overeager and trying to chat up every cute girl in the...
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    your thoughts on this sh!t test situation

    recently, i was at a club with some friends and one of my friends brought her sister with her. I thought her sister was cute, so i approached and did some fluff talk first. got her laughing etc blah blah blah. her sister sees us and comes over to talk to us. she asks us what we're talking...
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    is being called "nice guy" always bad?

    maybe its the desire in me to never be AFC again, but i absolutely hate it when girls call me a nice guy. honestly, it doesn't happen very often (i've only been called nice twice this school entire school year, but it still bugs me. let me know if still need to become more alpha/less...
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    keeping in contact over the summer

    i basically started talking to a girl the last day of class. got her number and said we should hang out when school starts again. i wasn't planning to see her again until school starts again in august. but recently, on facebook, i saw she responded to another mutual guy friend's wall post. she...
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    is an aggressive kino style better?

    i guess this is kind of a calibration question too - how aggressive should one be with kino? lately my female friends have been introducing their friends to me and my buddies, and i've noticed a stark difference between how we approach girls. Both of us do the ****y funny stuff, but while i do...
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