"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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  1. SW15

    Have been doing cold approach street game for months. Am getting very little results. Soliciting feedback on routine.

    ...same night sex at a bar without money becoming relevant if the man has his own bachelor pad. You have that. That's good for your sexual market value. The topic of money and employment is definitely relevant in longer term relationships. Given your NEET status, you would be better off...
  2. SW15

    Have been doing cold approach street game for months. Am getting very little results. Soliciting feedback on routine.

    ...can likely get away with unemployment and still attract women. Most unemployed males are not in that position in the USA. Female sexual market value is rarely affected by employment status. Women in relationships are rarely dumped/divorced when they become unemployed. Women who become...
  3. SW15

    Mating market in relation to high profile single moms

    Yes, this is a thread about the sexual market value of a woman who is a single, a single mother, and high profile. This is something I think would resonate on a seduction forum.
  4. B

    Mating market in relation to high profile single moms

    Email her this, and open that email with the words: "When I heard your husband succumbed to that gunshot, these are thoughts that began running through my mind. Should one of your kids fly through the f-c-ing windshield in a car accident and be decapitated in the process, don't worry... I'll...
  5. SW15

    Mating market in relation to high profile single moms

    This has nothing to do with politics or religion and is within boundaries of rules .All I want to discuss is the mating market in relation to a high profile single mom. Single moms can still get a lot of interest in the mating market. I've seen it myself. I think this particular high profile...
  6. B

    Let's talk about baldness - did Prince William, who had been "cute" in his younger, hairy days get mogged by harry Harry once William went bald?

    Didn't stop Telly Savalas, S. Connery, and Bruce Willis in the past, nor Jason Statham, Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson, Vin Diesel, S.L..Jackson, James Spader, and sh-t tons more fellas in more recent times Are YOU losing your hair, OP? If not, what's prompted you to spend more than a microsecond...
  7. MatureDJ

    Let's talk about baldness - did Prince William, who had been "cute" in his younger, hairy days get mogged by harry Harry once William went bald?

    It seem to me that the baldness is the key here - the wrecker of mens' sexual market value.
  8. pipeman84

    My "Algorithm"

    In what world is a 40yrs old (you mentioned her age in another thread) divorced woman a catch? o_O It reminds me of the slogan "War is peace, freedom is slavery, and ignorance is strength" from Orwell's 1984. High quality character and very feminine don't belong in the same sentence with...
  9. jhonny9546

    My "Algorithm"

    Sounds interesting, thanks for taking the time to share your system with us. One thing's unclear: do you also date women who are currently engaged, married, or already have children?
  10. The Duke

    Almost got busted by one of my girls by not being smart about clues

    That doesn't answer my question. You said there is no such thing as cheating on non cohabitating relationships. I beg to differ. If a girl asks to be exclusive and you don't cohabitate and one of the members has sex with someone else, that is cheating is it not? Please explain.
  11. Manure Spherian

    Almost got busted by one of my girls by not being smart about clues

    He can “commit”, knowing that in most cases, the “bf-gf” dynamic will sooner or later break down, and either one will end it by putting one foot in the sexual market with the other foot still in the “relationship”. Likely it will end in turmoil and heart break in one person, though there likely...
  12. Glassguy

    My "Algorithm"

    Ive always taken the same approach for dating: run a rotation of quality women and if one is worthy of pursuing a relationship with, so be it. Typically I would date 2-4 chicks at a time. Some would fall out and I'd replace them. When I started dating my current gf I was physically dating 3...
  13. jhonny9546

    Remember: you were redpill before you even knew what the redpill was. What was you VERY FIRST RP experience? ( dig deep!!)

    You're a mature man, you're on this forum to learn. You'll be taught to have your own "set of things", increase your SMV, behave well, be assertive, don't talk badly about others, and have values. At this point you tell about yourself... "I've worked hard for my life, I feel good about myself, I...
  14. zekko

    Remember: you were redpill before you even knew what the redpill was. What was you VERY FIRST RP experience? ( dig deep!!)

    Graffiti writers is interesting. The appeal of the artist with an edge, I suppose.
  15. Manure Spherian

    Remember: you were redpill before you even knew what the redpill was. What was you VERY FIRST RP experience? ( dig deep!!)

    Red pilling experience: growing up lower middle class with all my teen years in the 90s in one of the NYC boroughs. Hierarchy of the sexual market then: 1. Criminals, truants, scumbags, gang members, graffiti writers, drug users. 2. Rich boys (many Greeks in this bunch). 3. Good looking boys...
  16. SW15

    Frustrated chump laments that he only matches with 10 people in Los Angeles

    Incel means involuntarily celibate. These are people who desire to have sex but are unable to have sex. The celibacy period must be extended and the consensus is that the period is at least one year. There are people who are voluntarily celibate. Some voluntarily celibate people are...
  17. CornbreadFed

    Age shaming ramping up for men who play the field after the age of 30.

    Most men will not be able to fvck 20 year olds in after the age of 30. Meanwhile, women will be pretty much chased after by men they want until maybe their 60s. In addition, most women don't care about younger men and are content with dating men their age or older, so a woman that is 40 will...
  18. Bingo-Player

    Age shaming ramping up for men who play the field after the age of 30.

    This is a trope that's going to be mostly perpetuated by women in their late 20's and 30's who haven't settled themselves and are annoyed they don't have the same volume of options for a partner they did in their early 20's The majority of men (kinks aside ) always have and always will prefer...
  19. V

    Any of you guys make content with your girl/partner(s)?

    Nice. The real beauty of OF is , you don't really need to put out a sex tape... Most of what I post is just pictures of the girls I work with and 30 second - 3 minute video clips. I had a 20 minute video on there when I first started but I learned short and sweet is better.. I know i probably...
  20. SW15

    A relationship it's a rental agreement

    ...for the marriage was a stable household for any future children. A childless divorce that lasts less than one year would have minimal impact on a woman's sexual market value (SMV). Few of the men that you would meet in the mating environment would judge you too harshly on this marriage &...
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