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why can't you do that in college?

wasn't popular at all. quite literally was a jester and a loser lol i was probably like the top 3 lower of my class easily. hence the rason why im asking this post rn

I commuted to college so I did not have a college experience at all. But looking back, I don’t think living at the dorms would have made that much difference though as a nerdy introverted engineering student. I did well dating in my very late 20s and early 30s. Had a chance to mature a bit...

I have 12 cold approaches so far this month. Of course that's no where near what I need, as we discussed already. @nicksaiz65 and another forum member said that they would do 40-50 approaches in one night. That's not practical where I live, so I would have to go to Orlando for a weekend to...

Right, and heaven help you if the dad or the brothers are happy to use lead pipes or worse even if she is of age and likes you a lot.

...H20. The thing with being 18 to enter is that, similar to real bars, you'll have people who are underage getting in...and the risk there should be obvious. If you prefer college girls, that's fine, but I'd strongly recommend you meet them in REAL bars where you know everyone is at least legal.

...things." I don't THINK my life really changed. I KNOW it did. It would be hard to believe me if I told you about who I was in highschool / college. I don't have thoughts of 'ending it all' because a girl 'broke my heart.' I started to understand that if I don't take the helm and start taking...

...age and her age that fancy her. What is so outstanding about YOU? Nothing? Well unsurprisingly you fail. My son btw is 23, married, has a college degree, a stable upwardly mobile career path, and a daughter. They are now expecting a son. He is very good looking, socially adroit, and...

So to apply that metaphor to me, I'm a NASA engineer with that skill set working in fast food. After I graduated from college, I had a heck of a time finding an entry level position because my prior work experience wasn't marketable to the job market I was seeking. I had to talk to a lot of...

I have met @BPH as some may know. His prospects are objectively much higher with girls 21-28 than @Plinco as he is good looking (an 8 is accurate), is in his early 30s, so much smaller age gap, has his physique on point, is at ease socially and well dressed. He has a young energy look, a sharp...

There's nothing glaringly wrong, but there's nothing so exceptional that he's gonna pull college girls when they can walk to the nearest frat party and have Chad Thundercock in Kappa Sig pipe her out. I said 5, that is average, right in the middle, dictionary definition of the median. Know...

...with them, THEN you could look into money/status/personality to see where the problem lies. You yourself said that girls you approach in college bars go cold on you (despite a good start) when they find out your age. And you're what, 10yrs younger than Plinco? So what's so surprising that...

...societal norms and expectations, along with the ease and convenience of attracting somebody closer to her age in her immediate vicinity at college. From a purely looks perspective, I think you're about a 5. I think a lot of people are blowing smoke up your a** to be polite here, and I don't...

This is something I've witnessed for quite a while now, I remember being at bars and clubs in the years leading up to COVID and seeing the same observations you've described. It's literally women going out together in groups doing their own thing and where there is little to no interaction with...

That's the mistake you are making. If your goal is to become good at conversing and cold approaching, it doesn't matter who the target is. Your goal should be to approach anyone you meet that's a female and learn how to start a conversation that keeps them engaged and interested. This goes...

...in the day time for hours without seeing any women who are worth my time. The only places I see a concentration of the women I like are on college campuses, the gym, and one local spot on Thursday and Friday nights. To rack up a ton of approaches, I'd have to spend a weekend in Orlando...

...age. Most of my friends who got married did so by around 30 and with long term girlfriends who "chose" them in this manner generally at college. Online it doesn't work so well because even average looking women get thousands of matches so they don't choose men in the same way because they...

...but there's trailer parks and ghettos all over, especially Pinellas County. St Pete Beach is a separate municipality. As of the last census, median age was 62. Clearwater is the party beach where the Tampa college kids go. Ironically, the water is the least clear of any beach I ever went to.

if a man has status already, he will not have any questions about hits.

In my experience, where I’m at, the women who go out to clubs, trendy restaurants, or events together usually already have a man or a steady hookup on the side. When I try to present myself in these situations, it often feels like I’m facing a jury that isn’t on my side. On the other hand, the...