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There's nothing wrong with his face, isn't obese, he's articulate, doesn't give off bad/angry man/loser vibes. The elephant in the room here is the cold approaching. If he was meeting women in his target age range via an organic way and still couldn't get anything off the ground with them, THEN...

We've talked about this a lot in the time we've worked together, but I'll summarize it here for you: You want to do things your way, rather than take the advice you ask for We'd made some stylistic improvements, which you haven't stuck with You tend to go into interview mode during every...

This is something I've witnessed for quite a while now, I remember being at bars and clubs in the years leading up to COVID and seeing the same observations you've described. It's literally women going out together in groups doing their own thing and where there is little to no interaction with...

That's the mistake you are making. If your goal is to become good at conversing and cold approaching, it doesn't matter who the target is. Your goal should be to approach anyone you meet that's a female and learn how to start a conversation that keeps them engaged and interested. This goes...

Not necessarily. Sometimes I like intellectual women and sometimes I don't. I'm attracted to high energy levels and cheerfulness. Correct. I always say observations > theory The linchpin of my strategy is to be really good at cold approaching. Unfortunately I can go out in the day time...

Agree this is how it happens for a lot of men. But it is far more likely to happen in a social circle dynamic and generally at a younger age. Most of my friends who got married did so by around 30 and with long term girlfriends who "chose" them in this manner generally at college. Online it...

In the nice areas, maybe, but there's trailer parks and ghettos all over, especially Pinellas County. St Pete Beach is a separate municipality. As of the last census, median age was 62. Clearwater is the party beach where the Tampa college kids go. Ironically, the water is the least clear of...

if a man has status already, he will not have any questions about hits.

In my experience, where I’m at, the women who go out to clubs, trendy restaurants, or events together usually already have a man or a steady hookup on the side. When I try to present myself in these situations, it often feels like I’m facing a jury that isn’t on my side. On the other hand, the...

Your two biggest levers are proximity and status. When it comes to SMV, the main components are looks, money, status, and personality, but status carries the most weight, especially with younger women. If your status isn’t naturally high, cold approaching is the fallback, though it’s far less...

If you are only mediocre attracting women your own age, you will struggle with girls 15-20yrs younger. Its like playing college ball vs. professional ball. So here's the requirements: -Looks -Money -Status -Skills -Personality Any combination of those will get you there. If you don't have...

...made them super selective adn changed the game a bit I think guys have accepted defeat when it comes to cold approach at least. And guys know that tinder is of course the same. And so I can only assume all of the dating is happening through mutual friends and social activities and college/work

I really miss Joe's Crab Shack. I think Co-Vid killed off all the ones within decent driving distance. This thread reminds me of the movie Downhill with Will Ferrell and Julia Louis-Dreyfuss. There's a scene where she is in a car talking with some other women about their sex lives. She...

Few years ago after I had just turned 30 I met a 22 year old college chick Very hot blonde long legs the lot .... she was absolute filth in the sack We dated for about 6 months , she was starting to annoy me a bit by that point was very immature And also had a very strange lifestyle...

Tampa! Imagine driving from Miami to near Tampa to get your driver license! You leave at 5 in the morning, and come there at 9:30 am. In Miami, line to DMV begins day before, you have to wait all night to be able to get in. So instead you drive to Plant City, that's near Tampa, and do everything...

Have you tried going to a club? Or a party? Or a bar? You don't HAVE to drink, but these are places people go on weekends, after work, to be social. Everybody is literally there to be around other people. As for the alcohol bit, do what you want, but I'm surprised by how many people abstain...

A genuine question from my side too. I am about to pass out college, and I have no idea how do you approach or find new women? I don't drink, smoke or do any kinds of drugs. Never went to a club either.

I believe that if you aren't failing, you aren't trying hard enough. Getting comfortable in a positive feedback loop, absent hardship, failure, and adjustment, means you're not growing... But that's besides the point. This book was published in December 2013, meaning it was probably finished...

I live in a country where wages for a well earning developer is $4/hr. Unemployed and under massive education loan of more than $6000, while my father had a loan of collectively more than $12000. I started working for freelancing companies, and started with $13.5 per hour, and it was a lot for...