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The computer era of online dating had some interesting tactical rules that were promoted. Around the early to mid 2000s, I remember reading some advice articles that stated not to respond to messages between Friday afternoon and late Sunday night. That rule was promoted to make it look like you...

The organized singles events are making me more comfortable with the opposite sex. As for today specifically, I told a girl who works in my office building's cafe I'm attracted to her today (and no, not the cafe girl I have a thread about) Incel forums? The world's #1 incel forum turned down...

I think settings with alcohol helped him. I know of some college parties where he got laid when he had been drinking and the woman had been drinking as well. He did bar approaching for many years once he turned 21. He did eventually move to swipe apps when swipe apps were invented. I was...

I didn't say it never happens to any other guy. All I know is I was uniquely known (in high school) as the guy where girls dreaded finding out they were my crush. If it were really as common as you're making it sound for dudes to be told no girl will ever want him, there wouldn't have been such...

Signal reading is tough. Many neurotypical males fail with this. The natural tendency for men is to overrate signals. High school is a bit of a bubble in the mating environment. College (also a bubble environment) only somewhat resembles it. The mating environment that most working age, post...

I have been one of them as well. There are times where certain excuses can be legitimate. However, at a certain point, everything is water under the bridge as @Clockwerk50 said earlier in the thread. Sometimes, a situation can get so bad that a man needs to break everything and start from...

This is true. I think this has gotten more common in the last 30 years with more competitive college admissions and more of a parental focus on building a list of activities that impresses college admissions officers. High school social standing doesn't matter as much on a college campus...

Absolutely! I think a lot of men that struggle/struggled in dating because they skipped out on building experience with females in Middle & High School for other priorities. We were sold this myth that HS is BS and that getting laid in college is easy for the average men when it is hard mode...

That does happen. The recovery process from that is usually emotionally painful and difficult. I had to find a way to kill the "nice guy beta male" inside me. That process took an extended amount of time. Every guy has a missed opportunity / opportunity to shoot his shot and he didn't do it...

Your example doesn't qualify based on numerous reasons. 1. It is unknown if she actually would have gone out on a date with you. Even if she had gone out on a date with you, the whole interaction might have been 1-2 sexless dates and no LTR. You also likely overrated her signals. It's common...

...of my confidence, I wouldn't have grown up to be so timid about shooting my shot? There's no telling how many opportunities I've missed in college/post-college because I was afraid to shoot my shot. Your story is certainly a story that could change a guy (in my opinion, you should have...

Like I always say, women are the greatest, most natural game players/actors there are. How your story played out is very common female behavior. Its why I would never marry one.

I think a traumatic experience can certainly lead to improvements with dating, because it gives you a reality check where you realize that women can be just as terrible as anyone else - and that takes them off of whatever pedestal you might've had them on. Story time... My first serious...

I think you’ve got your life more in order than I do. Maybe the whole “you give dad vibes” comment was just a **** test and you may need thicker skin but at the same time, it seems like you slayed before so you can slay again. Regardless, you could experiment with athleisure wear and maybe even...

Really? I didn't think those numbers were impressive. We got some stronger guys in the crossfit gym I go to that have some larger numbers and I'm nowhere near what they do. But I agree, I'm stronger than the average guy my age but definitely striving for those big lifts. I'm in the black every...

I might as well elaborate on the personal example I have in mind. My 3rd year of high school, I began chatting with a girl a grade behind me (and from what I can remember, I wanna say she was the initiator). We'll call her blondie. Blondie found me funny (we talked a lot on AIM...I'm aging...

yeah that is hector, who moved to romania to "game" lol. https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-demand-respect-pt-5-show-auto-rejection-make-her-chase i'm telling you guys, they're all passport bros lol. i think another one of their 'top guys' was coach tony d, who is located somewhere in...

I lost my virginity to a girl I approached at the mall. Granted, that was the first and only time that happened, but that's because I went to college and met them at parties and bars after that. I think it's great for learning how to not suck with women in an environment where failing is less...

Most bosses won't allow this. Companies that allow half days (typically on Fridays) are rarer. Additionally, most bosses are married people and it is difficult for them to identify with needing to find new women. That's an early start. If that's at home, it's a little bit easier. Showing up...

The biggest challenges men face in areas with a small population is a lack of selection. Areas with a small population are often pussie wastelands. I have heard that women in areas in the USA with smaller populations tend to be somewhat more realistic on standards because they need to be...