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I would argue being chummy with the bartender would make things worse in a cliquey college bar. They could view someone like you as not just an older dude who hangs around college bars, but one who's also a regular there.

Sometimes I do go with friends, and even if I don't, I'm good friends with all the bartenders at this spot. Like, I have to throw my money at this one guy in order for him to take it because otherwise he just refills me with free doubles all night. I imagine that carries some level of social...

It's interesting how they wear earbuds to discourage approaches, yet then they have the audacity to complain "How come men don't approach me anymore?" It's like they fail to make the following connection: In addition to discouraging approaches from men who aren't your type, earbuds also...

...feminism) had a lasting impact. I see it all the time in the behavior of the Millennial women and have been seeing this since I arrived on a college campus in Fall 2001. The media landscape has changed a lot in the last 20 years. I think the internet has impacted the cable/satellite TV...

...options. This isn't much of an issue when being pursued by hundreds of men. Women have abundance. No. First off, some women don't go to college/university. They might go to get a trade certification (typically medical/dental assisting type roles). Some just stop with their high school...

Just enjoy it but don't count on her for anything more. Do your own thing, be the center of your universe. No orbiting.

Maybe not. Why? Needy Translation, I would have fvcked you, but you are desperate like the other orbiters I have lol Why? Are you old enough to be in this forum? Maybe, but she would have left you anyways by the way you are acting with her in the present. Lunch is for women, do date nights...

...for fun, but has no intention of going further. I wouldn't bank on her, you'll end up frustrated. Focus on other girls. Also, if you're college age, this is prime time. For the love of god, don't waste time on that when you're surrounded by so many more options. This is the best time for...

That's actually not a bad suggestion. Girls are more attractive when they are young women. Personally, I like to have a good conversation with the women whom I find attractive. A conversation that isn't all intellect and actually fun.

I think the problem is that it comes off as a little creepy that an older guy is hanging around a college bar, most especially on your own. I would think that if you had gone there with a younger friend who was more appropriate for the setting, you would have your reason for being there, and it...

So I had one girl gimme fake iois in college. Gave me a lot we flirted, I got her ig. Texted for 2 hours I asked her out and told me that outta respect for her boyfriend she cant go out with guys. (her boyfriend is 5 years older, this is crazy, but i guess game is game) Now she keeps texting me...

...difficult to get in general. Men move older because that's what they can get. @BPH is good looking so he's ahead of the curve in general. College is somewhat of a bubble and the college specific bars are difficult to break into if you're not an undergraduate or graduate student at the...

This is the wrong mindset. You're allowing others to dictate how you live. I can't speak for BPH. For me however, integrity > sex I'm only attracted to young women. Telling me to go after older women is telling me that I should only go after what I am not attracted to. There's a lack of...

Agree that the odds are going to be low for a 31 year old at college bars, even with a strong physique. You've probably done everything you can do where you are. You need to go to Philadelphia, Baltimore, or Washington DC at this point. Those are the closest major cities. Philadelphia is the...

What about dating apps?

...good interactions suddenly turn to s*** once these women find out my age, something I can't control that never really matters outside these college bars. I find it immature and don't think age matters (within legal reason) if you're otherwise attracted to somebody, but everybody is entitled...

It’s up to you. I have a female friend from college, who actually is like a sister and cousin, and knows several of my family members and introduced me to one of my closest friends. We never wanted each other sexually. You could assess what kind of “friend” this guy is after meeting him, had...

...in my early 40s and I am old enough to remember when online dating had a stigma. When online dating had a stigma, I was in high school and college. I was in college from 2001-2005. This is right when the stigma was ending. However, college students have the advantage of the college social...

...CAN pull in this situation. The issue is the success rate which is going to be very low at best. And he’s clearly frustrated judging by his post. He’d be better served going somewhere different than a college bar with college girls who think their world is the campus and immediate surrounding...

You need to make answer this question, 'How would a sophisticated older, gentleman picks up women'? It definitely aint going to immature college bars that's for sure. Now if you were to say heading on out even places like Airports bar lounges or lounging around in family resto bars in certain...