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So I had one girl gimme fake iois in college. Gave me a lot we flirted, I got her ig. Texted for 2 hours I asked her out and told me that outta respect for her boyfriend she cant go out with guys. (her boyfriend is 5 years older, this is crazy, but i guess game is game) Now she keeps texting me...

...difficult to get in general. Men move older because that's what they can get. @BPH is good looking so he's ahead of the curve in general. College is somewhat of a bubble and the college specific bars are difficult to break into if you're not an undergraduate or graduate student at the...

This is the wrong mindset. You're allowing others to dictate how you live. I can't speak for BPH. For me however, integrity > sex I'm only attracted to young women. Telling me to go after older women is telling me that I should only go after what I am not attracted to. There's a lack of...

Agree that the odds are going to be low for a 31 year old at college bars, even with a strong physique. You've probably done everything you can do where you are. You need to go to Philadelphia, Baltimore, or Washington DC at this point. Those are the closest major cities. Philadelphia is the...

What about dating apps?

...good interactions suddenly turn to s*** once these women find out my age, something I can't control that never really matters outside these college bars. I find it immature and don't think age matters (within legal reason) if you're otherwise attracted to somebody, but everybody is entitled...

It’s up to you. I have a female friend from college, who actually is like a sister and cousin, and knows several of my family members and introduced me to one of my closest friends. We never wanted each other sexually. You could assess what kind of “friend” this guy is after meeting him, had...

...in my early 40s and I am old enough to remember when online dating had a stigma. When online dating had a stigma, I was in high school and college. I was in college from 2001-2005. This is right when the stigma was ending. However, college students have the advantage of the college social...

...CAN pull in this situation. The issue is the success rate which is going to be very low at best. And he’s clearly frustrated judging by his post. He’d be better served going somewhere different than a college bar with college girls who think their world is the campus and immediate surrounding...

You need to make answer this question, 'How would a sophisticated older, gentleman picks up women'? It definitely aint going to immature college bars that's for sure. Now if you were to say heading on out even places like Airports bar lounges or lounging around in family resto bars in certain...

That economic meltdown permanently damaged the first half of the Millennial generation, the 1980s born Millennials. Millennials who finished college or graduate school in the 2008-2010 range were crushed by the job market of that time coming out of school. Many Millennials were saying then...

Probably because they see you as a creepy older dude trying to get college chicks

There was a college bar district in my town that I tried to pickup girls at in my early 30's. I never had any success. I just couldn't penetrate their social groups and I wasn't part of their cliques. Now take the same age, non-college girls at bars that weren't known as college bars and I...

...but maybe a helpful question to ask is, from their perspective, is it socially acceptable to hook up with someone who's not part of that college scene anymore and somewhat older? That could be a factor and more about their own social dynamics and the fear of judgment. A college bar crowd...

I mean this seriously, not as an insult: what happened to your whole approach to bettering the state of the forum? Most of your recent replies are just bashing without anything constructive. I don't feel like multi-quoting a single reply, so I'll go point-by-point: I definitely see myself as a...

It is because you appear as a loser creep to these women because only losers tend to hangout in college bars after a certain age. You are basically the kid that graduated high school still hanging out in the parking lot and going to every Friday night football game. Would you bang a...

You are having the issues you are having because you are 30-31 and going to a specific set of bars catering to 21-24 year old college students. 30-31 is not that old for certain graduate level programs. This is a Wilmington, DE problem. In bigger cities, no one cares if a man is 31 and...

And the world's smallest violin is eking out yet another tune

...ways or look out for traffic! They just expect the whole world around them would never run over a female. This is out of control. In a small college town I visited, I’ve even seen rich young women driving cars and they go completely out of their way not to make eye contact with any male...

The issue is that social media and OLD gives women the illusion that they can meet and date these types of men. They might not be able to meet a God, but there's plenty of demigods and frauds out there massaging their egos.