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...fit and also good at dating both way above average compared to the average man. I havent even focused on dating as much as i did in college but im thinking of becoming REALLY good with women and putting my foucs on it not to get laid or get hotter girls but SOLELY for the purpose of making...

...Younger sisters and even younger cousins in the same city are way better at this. Thank you. This forum has had a good resource about college campus sex life topics. https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/observations-about-college-sex-life-from-someone-that-went-to-a-party-school.273268/...

Oh no, this guy was starting to Norwood it in high school, LOL. He has a college degree, but interestingly has slid into being a supervisor/manager at small, light-manufacturing places, and his income from that is not something that is overly a positive (but it's not a negative either). And...

...that don’t have a brother. So they are seeking the opposite. My high school was technically coed but a sausage fest. While commuting to college did not help me, SW and CBF confirmed something I long suspected. Without any high school dating or social experience, I would have had no...

...later in life who had attended the all-girls school in that area too. That's social circle game. How did he age into being desirable? College degree and decent paying job? Once again, this seems like an agreeable beta male with height who didn't relocate far in life post high school...

...Which could explain why I clicked better with blondie than I did with my own grade's girls. The social/emotional immaturity was a problem in college too, as my 20 year old self was 14-15 on the inside. And yeah, I'm aware plenty of White backsides are nice. Stereotype suggests otherwise...

...of Millennial and Gen Z women. This could be true globally but I question this idea in the United States, especially in big cities. Since college graduation, I have been in USA big cities so I've seen some of the worst female behaviors. This might have skewed my perspective. Aging Millennial...

This is the only place I disagree with Doc Love, but it is a semantic disagreement. He says a woman has to have at least 50% interest in a man to have a shot. I say that a woman has to be 'attracted' to a man to give him a shot. He doesn't separate attraction from interest: I do. His system...

...term interactions where women did lose interest, but not as fast as it seems with you. He also didn't rely on tech methods to meet women in college. His current relationship has lasted nearly 10 years. That's good on retention. I haven't seen him in person since before his current...

...experience talking to girls in high school (including the girl this thread is about). I might have not done as well with the opposite sex in college, even through tech methods, if I went to an all-male high school. With all the nice backsides I saw just from walking through the hallway in...

That's an interesting rule (to refrain from replying to messages on the weekend). Even if you weren't tied to the computer at all times, the weekend tends to be when folks have more free time (in other words, they could reply to a message here and there on the weekend, yet still have a life)...

...male in a decent relationship getting regular sex. Yes, this is all true. This is also a good point. I read Doc Love during my 2001-2005 college days. His main concept was interest levels (ILs). He always expressed IL in a percentage basis, and he thought it was important to keep above a...

...options by the standards of that day. In 1987-1997, a woman's options would have been more dependent upon her day-to-day living routine. Her college campus (if attending college), the frequency of her bar attendance (after age 21), the size of the city where she lived, and her real life...

...had a real life and weren't a dork tied to a computer. That classmate did go to parties regularly. He and I were even at some of the same college parties. He was going to the bars a lot in his 20s before finding a woman on a dating app in his 30s that became his wife. He put up an above...

...I didn't yet), which meant I could pretty much communicate with a woman on Craigslist at any time (whereas in 2001-05, she'd need to physically be on her computer) The fact I never attended a college party could at least partially explain the difference between your autist classmate and myself.

I think settings with alcohol helped him. I know of some college parties where he got laid when he had been drinking and the woman had been drinking as well. He did bar approaching for many years once he turned 21. He did eventually move to swipe apps when swipe apps were invented. I was...

...being an autist (I myself am in the same place as him on the spectrum; I was told by a professional I have Asperger's back when they still made the distinction) Doing the math of the time period when you were in college, I don't think Craigslist casual sex (my college method) was popular yet.

...males fail with this. The natural tendency for men is to overrate signals. High school is a bit of a bubble in the mating environment. College (also a bubble environment) only somewhat resembles it. The mating environment that most working age, post schooling men face isn't one that...

...the autism spectrum, which is a major issue for males in "money, muscle, and game", particularly the game component of that. When I was in college, I knew a guy who was diagnosed as Asperger's back during his childhood in the 1990s. In the 1990s-2000s, Asperger's was a separate diagnosis...

This is true. I think this has gotten more common in the last 30 years with more competitive college admissions and more of a parental focus on building a list of activities that impresses college admissions officers. High school social standing doesn't matter as much on a college campus...