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I am still out of a job. Ridiculous. My skill sets are I am exxtremely fit and also good at dating both way above average compared to the average man. I havent even focused on dating as much as i did in college but im thinking of becoming REALLY good with women and putting my foucs on it not to...

It is. Not all sisters are created equally. The major advantage is the younger sister. Very few female friends or acquaintances are good at social circle introductions. Younger sisters and even younger cousins in the same city are way better at this. Thank you. This forum has had a good...

Oh no, this guy was starting to Norwood it in high school, LOL. He has a college degree, but interestingly has slid into being a supervisor/manager at small, light-manufacturing places, and his income from that is not something that is overly a positive (but it's not a negative either). And...

I don’t have a sister, which I think is a disadvantage. I don’t think it’s essential for guys, but it probably helps to understand women earlier rather than later. I think it’s part of the reason I like having female friends. And interestingly it always ends up being chicks that don’t have...

Being 6'2" is a major asset. Being in an all-boys school from ages 9-18 was tough on him. It seems like all he did was be a 6'2" agreeable beta male and not relocate from the area where he grew up. As an agreeable beta male from early Generation X with strong roots in one particular geography...

In that case, the fact I never had a sister could at least partially explain my failure. You're damn right my younger social/emotional age in high school was a real roadblock. Come senior year, even though I still talked to blondie (junior at the time), I also talked to a decent amount of...

Is this still a valid notion? It's a notion worth challenging based on the actions of Millennial and Gen Z women. This could be true globally but I question this idea in the United States, especially in big cities. Since college graduation, I have been in USA big cities so I've seen some of the...

This is the only place I disagree with Doc Love, but it is a semantic disagreement. He says a woman has to have at least 50% interest in a man to have a shot. I say that a woman has to be 'attracted' to a man to give him a shot. He doesn't separate attraction from interest: I do. His system...

He had enough short term interactions where women did lose interest, but not as fast as it seems with you. He also didn't rely on tech methods to meet women in college. His current relationship has lasted nearly 10 years. That's good on retention. I haven't seen him in person since before his...

Even though I didn't date in high school, I'd still say going to a co-ed school helped to some degree. I at least had experience talking to girls in high school (including the girl this thread is about). I might have not done as well with the opposite sex in college, even through tech methods...

That's an interesting rule (to refrain from replying to messages on the weekend). Even if you weren't tied to the computer at all times, the weekend tends to be when folks have more free time (in other words, they could reply to a message here and there on the weekend, yet still have a life)...

Having a younger sister 1-2 years younger is a gold mine for meeting females and getting females to consider you as a romantic/sexual option during the high school years. After age 18, having a younger sister can have some benefits. The most important factor would be to live in the same city...

That would mean above average, young, and childless. In the picture that got posted on Photofeeler, how old were you in that picture? An above average looking woman born in 1969 would have had her peak physical years in the era before home internet access / slow dial up internet. It was...

The computer era of online dating had some interesting tactical rules that were promoted. Around the early to mid 2000s, I remember reading some advice articles that stated not to respond to messages between Friday afternoon and late Sunday night. That rule was promoted to make it look like you...

The organized singles events are making me more comfortable with the opposite sex. As for today specifically, I told a girl who works in my office building's cafe I'm attracted to her today (and no, not the cafe girl I have a thread about) Incel forums? The world's #1 incel forum turned down...

I think settings with alcohol helped him. I know of some college parties where he got laid when he had been drinking and the woman had been drinking as well. He did bar approaching for many years once he turned 21. He did eventually move to swipe apps when swipe apps were invented. I was...

I didn't say it never happens to any other guy. All I know is I was uniquely known (in high school) as the guy where girls dreaded finding out they were my crush. If it were really as common as you're making it sound for dudes to be told no girl will ever want him, there wouldn't have been such...

Signal reading is tough. Many neurotypical males fail with this. The natural tendency for men is to overrate signals. High school is a bit of a bubble in the mating environment. College (also a bubble environment) only somewhat resembles it. The mating environment that most working age, post...

I have been one of them as well. There are times where certain excuses can be legitimate. However, at a certain point, everything is water under the bridge as @Clockwerk50 said earlier in the thread. Sometimes, a situation can get so bad that a man needs to break everything and start from...

This is true. I think this has gotten more common in the last 30 years with more competitive college admissions and more of a parental focus on building a list of activities that impresses college admissions officers. High school social standing doesn't matter as much on a college campus...