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I live in the Netherlands and I also find it's incredibly easy to get eye contact and smiles - and I'm not that great looking. I went to Utrecht for an evening the other day and just in the 30mins I spent in buses etc I must have gotten 10 smiles and even more girls that gave EC. As for...

Yeah it feels a bit like that Double. But I've got a working solution figured out: I'll invite some friends as well including some hot girls, should be even more fun that way :)

The other day I ran into a fun goth-style girl while waiting for a rainstorm to end after visiting the supermarket, I opened her and we chatted for a while. It turned out we had quite a bit in common and ended up swapping numbers saying we'd go to a concert together sometime. Through SMS I...

I think you're overdoing the ****y part by a lot, try toning it down. Bust on them every now and then but otherwise have a normal conversation - seems to work for me anyway!

Yeah that'll help fuzz, lying all the time... instead of lying, why don't you make it so you've got something to back it up with? People usually notice it when you lie you know... there's always something that doesn't feel quite right when somebody lies.

Kineticharm, you missed the point. I think it's a very interesting observation, for a lot of guys it will definitely feel overwhelming once you are let into the fact that you've been doing -that- much wrong dealing with girls. It's not a voluntary reaction to be reminded of the information on...

Mate, I know exactly where you're coming from. However it's not as hard as you may think it is. I think that so far you haven't succeeded yet because you haven't found people you've got something in common with. All of my male friends are activity friends. For each activity I've got different...

I recognize this 'robotic' feeling, and what I've done to overcome it is quite simple - start at the beginning, and don't move on until you've got it nailed.. To be more precise, I started working on a confident posture first - it was real hard. First I could do it only in front of the...

Something that has helped me a lot is this: Whenever I feel myself getting nervous and even doing any kind of "what if" thinking I catch myself and immediately move on to thinking about something else. The nervous feeling will still linger a little bit but as you become engrossed in your new...

Thanks for the replies everyone! I will try slowing down as suggested - I've recognized wanting to go too fast as a problem before but somehow it keeps coming back. I think curing my absent-mindedness might still be related to my confidence so I'll work on that some more. I have very big...

Ok guys maybe you can help me with this problem I'm having. I'll make it a bit juicy so you'll have something to laugh :) Basically, my problem is I'm clumsy. For example. I'm cooking a meal, doing 3 things at a time right... rice boiling, veggies boiling, some meat too. Then I taste some...