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  1. G

    The rules of highschool never changed in the real world, just evolved

    ...a decent amount of alumni closer in age to me at the graduation (as they had relatives or friends in my brother's grade). When talking about college with me, I remember it coming up with some of my former high school classmates that I had finally gotten laid (for free...this was back when all...
  2. SW15

    [High IQ] I think that the BetaBux schema will become paying off wifey's student loan debt

    I don't foresee a trend where beta males pay women's college student loans either in part of in full in exchange for access to vagina. I can't imagine women wanting to be in extended interactions with betas involving sex in exchange for reduced student loan debt.
  3. SW15

    The rules of highschool never changed in the real world, just evolved

    You did a great job of summarizing 20-30 years of sexual marketplace experience in the USA. You struggled to get poon in high school, college, and in the post-college working environment in the USA. In the post-college working environment, you found out that your STEM work didn't drop the...
  4. Thebestthereeveris

    The rules of highschool never changed in the real world, just evolved

    ...I was chubby got NO girls and was pretty shy. Had friends but not popular by any means and was average maybe beloew averawge in school. After college i felt like i had more freedom to be who i want to be and got fit popular with girls and had lots of friends. So I became the "cool" guy and...
  5. Divorced w 3

    My girl passed out drunk in bed while taking her clothes off...

    ...she instead decided to uber my way $175, and I wake up and she’s sliding into bed apologizing… and it was her birthday had this happen in college at a dance junior year, I took this smoking petite blonde to make a girl jealous (who ended up being a miss America runner up) and then my date...
  6. B

    Male Loneliness: The Unspoken Struggle

    ...of Loneliness in Men Lack of close friendships It’s not uncommon for older men to struggle with making close friends — especially after college. This may be because of societal expectations that encourage them to focus on things like their career and achieving financial success, which might...
  7. Clockwerk50

    The idea that rejection is nothing personal

    Bro, with all due respect, you’re overall below a 5. I’ve seen your picture. Once you come to terms with that reality, you’ll be able to start improving in the areas where you’re lacking. Trust me, everyone in the sexual marketplace knows who their opponents are, a believe me when I say, most...
  8. SW15

    What's a good response to this during cold approaches?

    ...I wish I knew earlier in life. I got more commonly IHAB'ed in the 2000s. In the 2000s, I had better access to females because I was on a college campus in the earlier part of the decade (2001-2005). My IHABs were most common around that time. By the time I learned boyfriend destroyer lines...
  9. G

    The idea that rejection is nothing personal

    When I was still 20, I briefly dated a freshman girl in an introductory gen ed class I was taking as a filler (seeing as I entered college with a major already declared, I eventually reached the point where I ended up needing filler classes, as I was running out of classes in my major...
  10. SW15

    The idea that rejection is nothing personal

    Yes, junior year might have sucked. You weren't flexible enough back then to find a solution. You could have done other forms of dates back then. As a 20 year old, you could have been dating the 18-19 year old freshmen and sophomores. However, your verbal game stunk with everyone. You didn't...
  11. G

    The idea that rejection is nothing personal

    ...drink) For that matter, the summer baby/drinking age thing goes beyond just this one story. There were all sorts of scenarios my 3rd year of college where my peers could already drink at a bar, yet I couldn't. I've collected various field intel from organized singles events. Organized...
  12. SW15

    The idea that rejection is nothing personal

    It is both your looks and your lack of charisma holding you back. You have also mentioned a lack of money too in the thread below. Looks, money, status, personality. Mindset is also an issue here...
  13. G

    The idea that rejection is nothing personal

    ...adamant I'm above-average. My charisma is what's holding me back moreso than looks. As for IHAB, I've shared a story on the forum about a college classmate insisting I share an office chair with her in the computer lab, yet ultimately turning me down when I shot my shot. What I don't think...
  14. SW15

    LR - 100

    ...women and he made it happen. He has the potential to put up even more impressive notches. He might be able to have sex with more hot college students in the next few years. At the very least, he's going to run his notch count up even higher. This could be useful. If this woman becomes a...
  15. Rainman4707

    Freedom vs. Building Wealth

    Follow your personality, what is right for you, it will make you happy.
  16. SW15

    The idea that rejection is nothing personal

    You are fortunate HR didn't fire you for that. That sounds like a policy violation to me. I doubt that resulted in a date because you didn't directly ask her out and then ask for her number. Also, doing that within your own company is a bad idea. You didn't have the guts there to take a...
  17. G

    The idea that rejection is nothing personal

    ...was back in 2021 when I slipped my number to a female coworker at the same company as me. At a store I worked at before this job (but after college), I would comment on a female coworker's body (directly to her) I tend to stay at a job for a while (so the "you'll change jobs quickly anyway"...
  18. SW15

    The idea that rejection is nothing personal

    Have you ever approached women for sexual purposes in that office building or any office building where you've worked since college graduation? Interactions with baristas in the building cafe/restaurant are not counted here unless it was a direct ask out for a social outing. Multi-story office...
  19. G

    The idea that rejection is nothing personal

    ...office in my building, I'm an 8. In the opinion of Wheat Waffles, I'm a 4. In the opinion of a girl I had 2 dates with from OkCupid in college, I'm an 8 and a half. AI raters rate me mostly in the 6 range, with some 7's and some 5's. A live human rating site I'm on rated 2 of my images as...
  20. SW15

    LR - 100

    It's tough to start an interaction with a woman in her 2nd semester of senior year of college and have it last for any meaningful length of time. The most realistic scenario is a short term sexual encounter. I think your Early Frame Announcement with this woman was short term sex rather than a...
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