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  1. Modern Man Advice

    Women are your true companions. Men aren’t your friends.

    Let's see how well this post ages... Just wait for it... PS: I do agree, however, there are a lot of "black pill" comments and statements in the manosphere community in general. Becoming jaded towards women will only add to the problem.
  2. Modern Man Advice

    Advice on female (or male) tenant in my home

    This goes back to "you don't eat where you s**t". Your home is your sanctuary. A place of rest and mental peace. A space away from the constructs of life. Bringing someone that you can potentially feel physical/mental attraction will hinder that. Unless you have a high sense of self-control and...
  3. Modern Man Advice

    "Being persistent" vs "Pursuing" debate concluded

    I totally agree with you. However, I use these two terms "Chasing vs Pursing". I intentionally pursue women that meet my standards and I find intriguing AND that show (not just say) interest in me as well. I do not chase women. You chase whenever you are trying to "convince" someone into...
  4. Modern Man Advice

    Girl mad at me

    And that's why you don't overdo texting before meeting first. How many times does this need to be said? Only text to set up dates. Leave your game and escalation to in-person. What you said was not only random but inappropriate to say (worse text) to someone you haven't built rapport with...
  5. Modern Man Advice

    What is the best thing a woman can do for you?

    It would be best if you stepped into a LTR with mental peace but she for sure needs to allow you to have that and contribute to it. In theory, a woman should positively challenge you, support you, give you genuine solid sex, and work on herself as much as you work on yourself. As far as...
  6. Modern Man Advice

    Holding frame..I keep laughing

    You might be confusing holding frame when it comes to intergender dynamics vs simply being respectful towards others' beliefs.
  7. Modern Man Advice

    Under What Circumstances Should a Guy Give Up Entirely?

    Never. No retreat. No surrender. That is man's law.
  8. Modern Man Advice

    How do I network my business?

    Welcome, it's great seeing others also wanting to focus on men's wellness and mental health. I can give you my own experience with Modern Man Advice. The "Why" is everything. Never focus your business on what you do, but on why you do it. Have a vision. Trust is everything. I spend a lot of...
  9. Modern Man Advice

    How to accept a LTR/marrying a non-virgin

    You just set your standards. What are you willing to tolerate vs not? Especially for LTR. For me, it's more than 5 guys in her past. Past that, I would consider not appealing. I'd bang them (use protection) but would not take them seriously. And I would let them know and set expectations of...
  10. Modern Man Advice

    Porn is not unrealistic and NoFap is not a cure.

    You mean a mother teaching her daughter how to f**k a man while she herself joins in the action is not realistic? Man, I must be getting the wrong kind of sex and missing out. Hmmm Also, NoFap has never been labeled a "cure". It is a practice. Do more research on the topic.
  11. Modern Man Advice

    Man sues chick that friend zoned him

    As much as I advocate for male rights, this has nothing to do with it. He got himself in that position, that is his fault and he should own up to it instead of b***ing about it. Live and learn boys: As @SW15 said and I've said multiple times here, being friends with a woman you are physically...
  12. Modern Man Advice

    Personal looks (and balding)

    Two words: Jason Staham Bald (when the head is shaved) is nowadays considered masculine. This is one of those things like age or height. The issue is not that you are bald, is that you let it get to you and that will transpire. But as others have mentioned, there are options/routes you can...
  13. Modern Man Advice

    Bipolar Cues

    Yep, that's a woman all right. I don't know about bipolar, that's a stretch. But like @Dr.Suave said, keep it cool man, don't let her emotions get the best of you.
  14. Modern Man Advice

    Bit of Help

    The Way Of Men by Jack Donovan All volumes of Rollo Tomassi books (Preventive Medicine is not really a must) The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida Of Boys And Men by Richard Reeves Start With Why by Simon Sinek Mindset by Carol Dweck More Than Enough by Dave Ramsey The Code of the...
  15. Modern Man Advice

    Bit of Help

    Thar is a lot of years of conditioning and brain wiring. You are not ready, nor should you, commit to a relationship. What other books have you read? I can suggest a few to start. But ultimately, you need to spend time alone. You need to build yourself from the ground up. You need to suffer and...
  16. Modern Man Advice

    How To Respond To The "I Miss You" Text

    Haha yeah, cake is bomb. It's a reference to a US show called That 70's Show where in one episode Donna tells her bf Eric she loves him and obvi freaks him out and he replies "I love cake".
  17. Modern Man Advice

    How To Respond To The "I Miss You" Text

    Just say "I miss cake".
  18. Modern Man Advice

    Am I coming off as an arrogant newbie know it all?

    Speak your mind, but remain humble. That's all.
  19. Modern Man Advice

    Has anyone else here dealt with sexual addiction?

    Yeah, def cutout porn. That will hinder the neuroplasticity in your brain and is the reason why sex never feels satisfactory. But what it does sounds like is just a high sex drive, not addiction. If you were lowering your standards, seeking validation or social status, "selling" yourself for it...
  20. Modern Man Advice

    Has anyone else here dealt with sexual addiction?

    There are two parts to this: 1) What is addiction? Another member briefly mentioned this but what most men would consider sex addiction is just a normal sex drive for a man. Men naturally have high sex drives and given the opportunity, we will have sex, even if the woman barely or doesn't even...
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