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I was thinking of nuts. They have a hard shell, but the kernel should be invulnerable, hard and reliable too.

I’ve since youth had the problem of exerting myself to burnout-ish states. That state follows some well-documented pattern of first restlessness and stress, followed by sincere tiredness (and hence restitution possible), if done properly. The problem is this is a no go. I can’t have this jerky...

I agree. I don't get any form of validation generally and I walk around with a constant sadness. One good date, such as my Saturday, by a girl that actually appreciate you, and one feels like a human being. And if you're functioning, as opposed to battling some kind of depression, one has...

Another version of ghosting is the "post interaction." You spend time with a girl and naturally add on social media at the end, but she doesn't accept afterwards. It can indeed be seen as that the agreement at the time was just a strategy for conveniently getting rid of me. But at least not...

I agree. I cold approach a lot too, and the majority of them end in IHAB. However, I think there's a reasoning behind this. In Casino Royale there is this exchange: - James, why is it you like married women? - That keeps them simple. The one's with a boyfriend, that is the girl belongs to...

The theory that the dating pool is small due to that there's few girls in the high value league of supposedly oneself, is of course very appealing. I have an acquaintance that owns a couple of apartments, drives a Porsche, his own company and got height/looks/body. So what does this...

I'll continue option 1.

Yeah, now and then.

Despite having virgins served on a silver plate, plenty of cold approaching and a couple of dates via OLD, I currently don’t fck. I know why: My personality is basically beta/provider type, though I know the red pill theory. Since childhood I’ve spent my existence on impressing people, like my...

Yeah, I think it's one of the hallmarks of Tomassi, I thought about it when I read his first book. I identified it vaguely as some kind of "hate towards women", but couldn't formulate any clear argument or pinpoint anything specific. However, I actually think it can be defended rather well...

I agree that regulating these things are difficult. My problem hasn't been softness on the inside, but to regulate between softness and toughness, and therefore yielded instability instead. With my latest girl I was too tough, I should have been soft too, lost her. The demands are high, you...

What would you say is the answer to your success?

I see me as sigma. Without wing cold approaching and clubbing can be hard, but on the other hand, a good wing is really hard to come by, I haven't yet stumbled on any candidate. What do other sigmas think of sigma life? Though the respect I receive at studies is more an alpha.

I think I feel ya. I'm having a crisis over all of it (head spinning/computing like hell but getting nowhere), but here's how I view it right now, taking into account some other aspects of my life: So, previously my life was "sophisticated", a STEM job, travelling, culture, fancy studies. Now...

What I think I've realised is that my choices were right: I left IT and entered business/economics. I can't currently make it work, so I tried IT again too just like blue-collar jobs, but the bottom line is to make the business/economics career work.

"after" not in the sense the evening, but that I worked 2006-2010, and then studied 2010-2015.

Sure. Some reasons for being turned down are "better candidates", and if I apply in IT they doubt my sincerity due to my economics degrees, and in economics I'm unexperienced. I try to convince in the former case, in the second I don't find junior positions. You talk about a "large gap in CV"...

I got lines for explaining my gaps. Yeah, I adapt CV. I have been, but haven't lead to jobs, seems to be because of obsolete skillsets. The trick is to find someone that finds value in my two pillars, or an entry level economist job. I'm on LinkedIn yes, a 400 connections.

I do (was above). We have the same understanding of those degrees. My bachelor is in marketing management with additional courses to qualify for the master's. Competence-wise, if you look at the course content of an MBA, it's hence similar. That is the bachelor plus master's is roughly an MBA...

Look. Outside a metro a girl in blue was hanging out that I've never met before, idling, playing with her phone. I walked up and said one greeting phrase and she angrily yelled "Get away from me! I'll call the cops. Never talk to me again!" I replied "Take it easy." and walked away. If you cold...