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Yes, I think it's a relevant factor. 170 cm here. With girls that are shorter than me I typically see their eyes/face light up in a completely different way. The factors that differ between my friends in IRL who slays and me, is getting closer to being only height. American presidents are tall, etc.

People say I have a "nice body" etc due to my regular workout, but I confirm this dilemma. However, think of this progression: 1. An insecure dude in a crappy body 2. An insecure dude in a great body 3. ...and later on a confident dude in a great body That's the theory at least. You mention...

You could kind of put me in that category, and I don't want to be in it. Though my recent girl is/was a normal Swedish girl, before that, two whales. And before that, a lot more trash. I approach and hit on "hot" non-fat girls, and no longer approach fat girls, but I don't know why I don't bag...

Why do you see a connection here? Feel free to elaborate. Lifting could be a compensation for other things, but it also builds value (as well as the known health benefits).

Another theory is what matches their/our self esteem. For instance, a pretty girl might have poor self-esteem, due to being validated for her looks, while feeling crap inside. Hence she will match against low value, because that's what she feels is what she "deserves". Some ugly girl can have a...

Clickbait Nah, seriously: Recently I’ve spent some time on 3-4 muslim girls on Snapchat, from cold approach. They are good looking, 19-27 is my guess. Their response times are long, about one day (I mirror) and combined with that they don’t want to date or flake, suggests low interest. They...

Be in control, don’t be led. One of my hallmark challenges. For instance, in one set one girl hijacked me, I thought she was interested, but used me for validation, had a boyfriend. Stick to game theory in this specific case, her girlfriends were probably single. This challenge goes with both...

I have a challenge here. My vibe is too caring and nurturing, too warm. It's also dubious. For instance, yesterday I practiced dance with a new girl, I brought a beer and a cider. I think this actually was too caring, too kind, too much simping. Perhaps one can do that in different ways.

Amen. Basically long drought here, going crazy.

Think AFC'ish. Can't dress, doesn't work out, little experience, comfort and safety seeking. I'm sure he has good qualities, but according to the collective wisdom/perception of SS, one can do a lot better. But sure, maybe I'm tripping on some cognitive bias. Of course there's good men, and...

Confirmed over here. When you start looking around, most girls have low quality boy friends.

Have the same mindset, good mindset. Had a date with a woman older than me with great rack at my place, and she basically tried to coerce me into paying for a dinner before we'd play more. What the hell does she think? She's into some kind of commerce. Also odd that some women don't see sech as...

I got a dubious perspective. I'm currently without job and low on cash, but I haven't yet been rejected based on that, it seems. I phrase it in positive ways, I got a respectful degree and my wardrobe is ok, meaning I don't give off the image of a bum. That being said, money would improve...

Not necessarily.

Yeah, Scandinavia hasn't progressed that far. The communities "go out", clubs, bars, the beach, etc, but it doesn't go beyond the dance nerd thing. I think they all strive and secretly want the whole experience, but they don't dare. In Buenos Aires tango is huge and ingrained in their way of...

Hi All_Kindz_Of_Gainz, Just to be clear, I wrote about "dance classes and dance communities". By communities I mean the dancers in the city who meet at bars, clubs, the beach, etc, to dance. Hence I discuss both classes and "going out" in a dance context, in the sense that dance people do that...

This is periodically brought up, so I thought I’ll share my extensive experience from communities in latin dance, primarily from Norway and Sweden. I’d say that this is specific to Scandinavia, other cities can differ significantly, maybe even Stockholm. Taking dance classes is a good way to...

Yeah. Their attitude can damage oneself if one lets it in. I got a useful tip, and it was that women basically play theatre, and that's a good point generally. They act like they don't wanna be fcked, they act like they don't want to be talked to etc. If one as seducer has this theatre mindset...

Right, drought.

Agree. A guru said "I will have drive, but not urgency." I say "controlled, smart neediness."