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    Thinking of sending a girl these texts: to do or not to do?

    Just to reinforce Glassguy's point look at her responses before your compliment, they are flirtatious and sarcastic, but as soon as you compliment she gives a thanks, which is a complete change in attitude and as you realized a frame break. When you are dealing with women like this you have to...
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    I'm legitimately starting to despise women

    You realize you just listed a bunch of ways to bust a woman's chops while basically raising their interest level. Hell, you may able to pull using angry ranting game. But you wouldn't get mad a cripple for being crippled, so why get mad at women for being women.
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    Thinking of sending a girl these texts: to do or not to do?

    Nobody here is against direct game and if it works for you then don't let us stop you. However, one's direct game is correlative to confidence and IDagf attitude, which is not congruent with what you are posting. You got this girl into a sexualized state but what you are missing is that your...
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    Thinking of Breaking Up

    This is a rule that applies to every case. If a woman tells you she's crazy and says you haven't seen anything yet or wait til xyz happens. You cannot leave fast enough. There is no gray area here. The other troubling thing is her fear of sex at 24, which either suggests severe OCD, or past...
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    Dealing with male aggression

    To answer your question it stems from physiology. Men since the beginning of time have tested each other's frame to establish a hierarchy. It's a crucible of sorts and once you establish dominance they tend not to f with you. In actuality your brother is giving you a chance to show alpha state...
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    Did I just dodge a bullet?

    Better question is why did you starting dating her at all?
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    How to handle this Flake?

    Doesn't matter. Forget about the number and image that you invited yourself to something. Unless your running some savage game or f'ing with your buddies, inviting yourself somewhere is socially inappropriate, awkward, and frankly disrespectful in 99% of cases. By not busting her chops you are...
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    Thinking of sending a girl these texts: to do or not to do?

    As mentioned if you have to ask then the answer is no. If you going to use flattery do so in small doses, if at all. Also make sure you are rewarding her for good behavior. Game has layers, depth, and subtext. Women love flattery to massage their egos, but unless you are a master seducer and...
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    How to handle this Flake?

    1. Stop micro analyzing 2. Do not believe what a woman says but believe in what she does 3. He who hesitates is lost. If a girl invited herself to the movies that you and two guys were going to you should be busting her chops. Think if the situation was reversed and you invited yourself to a...
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    closer to the red pill

    There are things you need to fix and I am saying this as someone who was in a 2 year "relationship" with a cluster B woman. Any guy who gets involved with a cluster B woman has issues that need to be resolved. That's what you need to gleam from this experience. She's broken and you need to...
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    Why most of djs can't connect to a woman.

    Unfortunately, too many guys don't listen to their gut. Filtering isn't hard but it takes discipline. You also need to develop a base of knowledge to understand what seemingly small items are deal breakers. Everyone has been guilty of allowing sentiment to override logic. However, as men...
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    My Passion For Women Is GONE

    Tenacity, the quality problem is a real problem. I don't think your requirements are out of whack. It's good not to settle for mediocrity just because you feel pressure to settle down. However, I do wonder if you're looking too hard. I'm a firm believer that things tend to happen when you...
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    Top 5 signs of high interest and low interest

    HIL 1. You're not confused. LIL 1. You're confused
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    I Need advice on BPD/NPD ex and hoovering

    Put her **** outside or have a friend of hers pick it up. Granted it's likely she doesn't have friends so option one is the way to go.
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    Plate spinning to the outside world?

    I've always framed it as getting to know what I like and I don't. You'll find that tends to get better responses because it implies that you are thorough, thoughtful, and responsible in your decision making, which is the antithesis in people's minds of plowing women. Do not pay attention to the...
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    For date-coffee or drink

    Not a big fan of coffee dates because typically it means sitting inside when the sun is out. I'd recommend either drinks in the evening, which is more conducive to a woman being receptive to your advances or an active date which is more conducive to kino.
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    Ambiguous "Abundance"

    Sure, if anyone thinks that confidence or abundance can just be had by belief then they are sadly mistaken. It takes time, insight, failure, etc. Not to mention that everyone starts at a different starting point and people have different goals and limiting beliefs. I don't think anyone is...
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    Ambiguous "Abundance"

    9volt, I'd recommend you read a few books on philosophy ( I'd recommend Carl Jung's theories on the collective unconscious) that might give you further illumination on the topic. Nobody is trying to suggest that a person has abundance simply by stating they have abundance or that they have...
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    Confidence attracts more than good looks

    I have met a few guys that bewildered me as to why they couldn't do well with the ladies and each time the answer was that they lacked confidence. They'd get girls to come over but after a few minutes of talking the girls were looking elsewhere. They just seemed so uncomfortable in their own...
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