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  1. SW15

    The idea that rejection is nothing personal

    You are fortunate HR didn't fire you for that. That sounds like a policy violation to me. I doubt that resulted in a date because you didn't directly ask her out and then ask for her number. Also, doing that within your own company is a bad idea. You didn't have the guts there to take a...
  2. G

    The idea that rejection is nothing personal

    ...was back in 2021 when I slipped my number to a female coworker at the same company as me. At a store I worked at before this job (but after college), I would comment on a female coworker's body (directly to her) I tend to stay at a job for a while (so the "you'll change jobs quickly anyway"...
  3. SW15

    The idea that rejection is nothing personal

    Have you ever approached women for sexual purposes in that office building or any office building where you've worked since college graduation? Interactions with baristas in the building cafe/restaurant are not counted here unless it was a direct ask out for a social outing. Multi-story office...
  4. G

    The idea that rejection is nothing personal

    ...office in my building, I'm an 8. In the opinion of Wheat Waffles, I'm a 4. In the opinion of a girl I had 2 dates with from OkCupid in college, I'm an 8 and a half. AI raters rate me mostly in the 6 range, with some 7's and some 5's. A live human rating site I'm on rated 2 of my images as...
  5. SW15

    LR - 100

    It's tough to start an interaction with a woman in her 2nd semester of senior year of college and have it last for any meaningful length of time. The most realistic scenario is a short term sexual encounter. I think your Early Frame Announcement with this woman was short term sex rather than a...
  6. SW15

    Is getting poon really as easy as this woman says?

    ...I anticipated that it would take. Getting poon isn't easy for most men. There are some men that can get poon more easily. 9/11 affected the college campus social environment to an extent. The universities that were likely most affected were the ones in Washington DC and New York City. The...
  7. G

    Is getting poon really as easy as this woman says?

    ...take classes that were meant for the next grade up. As a result, there were gifted class of 2010 kids who were in some of my classes. As for college, in a way, it's a blessing in disguise I didn't even think about trying to get laid until my 3rd year. Had I focused on getting laid from day...
  8. M

    Dude swipes right on 2 Million Women, Gets 1 Date, 0 Sex

    Agreed. I don’t think there is a looks floor for men for LTRs. I would argue that there is a looks floor for men for short term or casual sex. I have no studies to back it up. Just a theory I wanted to throw out there.
  9. B

    Is getting poon really as easy as this woman says?

    For Cthulu's sake, when did MEN begin lamenting the fact that they aren't teenagers anymore? That's almost always been the forte of WOMEN
  10. SW15

    Dude swipes right on 2 Million Women, Gets 1 Date, 0 Sex

    ...looks women for short term sex. Do you think mid-tier men can lower standards on looks to get into an LTR with a subpar woman? One of my college classmates married a subpar looking woman after his first divorce from a mediocre at best looking woman. He also had multiple kids with that...
  11. BeExcellent

    Why attractiveness rating in men is a coping mechanism

    Lol. I do not pack for my husband. The surgeon and his wife were high school & college sweethearts and times were lean while he was in medical school with young children. So once again you assume incorrectly about me. What IS evident however is your gross misunderstanding of nuerodiverse...
  12. SW15

    Is getting poon really as easy as this woman says?

    ...in the lunchroom, hallways, or outside on campus. Freshman year was a real kick in the testicles for me. I had partially selected my college based on its social scene and reputation for attractive women. I had been intending to make my mark as a seducer there. I quickly realized that it...
  13. G

    Is getting poon really as easy as this woman says?

    ...still wouldn't have been able to bear a possible rejection (I had been burned too many times by that point). So I never asked her out. Come college, I had a number of factors working against me. In addition to the summer baby thing and the autism thing, freshman girls are (as you pointed...
  14. SW15

    Is getting poon really as easy as this woman says?

    ...always a negative factor for male who want to date females in their own grade. This is tough because any male high school student (and even college student) will have the most direct contact with women in their own grade. Being the "younger male" is a bit uncomfortable. It can make 9th grade...
  15. G

    Is getting poon really as easy as this woman says?

    ...no matter what year they were born. I'm skeptical of the idea I'd have better social skills if I was a Gen Xer. The fact plenty of my college classmates born in the late 80s and early 90s had no problem getting cooch through in-person methods in college would suggest the timing of my birth...
  16. C

    Is getting poon really as easy as this woman says?

    I was born 15 years earlier, probably older than you. @GoodMan32 is right. Tech makes life allot easier. You dont learn more social skills without it, you do more without.
  17. SW15

    Is getting poon really as easy as this woman says?

    ...then dating websites started to get difficult before the dating apps launched. The fact that you even were using tech methods while having a college campus as a resource was a very bad sign in your era of attending college. College campuses offer social opportunities that can't be replicated...
  18. G

    Is getting poon really as easy as this woman says?

    ...period where technology enabled dudes who would otherwise be virgins to get laid (case in point: the partners I got through tech methods in college) Had I been born 15 years sooner, I likely would have graduated college a virgin (as opposed to with a body count of 6) On the flipside, had I...
  19. MatureDJ

    Do you think this gal that laments that she can't find "her person" is just being too picky?

    I think the mods combined a pair of my posts. :rolleyes:
  20. SW15

    You guys are my last option.

    ...(likely his mom) mainly raised him as a beta male nice guy. He saw in high school that it didn't work. Soon after high school (possibly in college), he tried to act the opposite of a beta male nice guy and that enabled him to lose his virginity and get his first girlfriend. It eventually...
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