"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you think this chick needs to "embrace her femininity" ... or just lose the blubber?

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She laments that she has been approaching men, and that by embracing her femininity, "masculine" men will start chasing her - but I think she just needs to lose the blubber to get men in general to chase her. :rolleyes:

 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She BELIEVES "I've embrace my feminity", even tbough she's blimpish enough to make Carl Benjamin and his imitators appear like the leads in Magic Mike Part 1

Further proof that continuously interrogating the accuracy of our perceptions is a vital endeavor
 

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feminine energy = don't be fat (among many other things)

not really one or the other
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Male (RP) dating coaches harp on masculine energy.

There are dating coaches for women that preach “feminine energy.” She probably picked it up there.
Heterosexual humans gravitate towards specific traits in one another?!


Next, we'll learn that clients who are criminalistic in their thinking and behavior benefit far more from a shrink who employs an approach similar to the one Dr. Krakower uses with Carmela here

Than they do "standard" warmth and empathy
 

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She still probably believes she "deserves" the men she was getting when she was younger and in better shape, but reality is slapping her across the face hard right now trying to wake her up.
 
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