"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Most women hit the wall in their 30's, but few, actually don't

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Duke

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In my early 30's I dated many attractive girls that were 35-45. It was kind of a niche group on the dating apps, many of them did some form of modeling in their prime. Most of the guys my age didn't want these girls because of their age. The women in this age group didn't want the guys in their age group because most of them weren't in shape. So lets just say I found a "honey hole" of talent to pick from.

Most of the time its girls that can look 10yrs younger than they actually are, have good genetics, and take care of their skin.

Very few look good after 50. Skin only stays elastic for so long and eventually gravity wins.
 

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Depends on from what angle you look at it.

If you know or knew a woman in her 20's and meet her again 10 years later ...she might've declined. But if you meet her for the first time at lets say 34 she can still ne sexy, pretty have charisma ect.

I do have to say that its sometimes staggering to see how cruel father time can be...one "superpower " that men CAN devolpe is the knowledge of understanding that that pretty woman will definitely get less pretty as time moves on. Great way to get over a woman you've fancied...
 

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Weisz was at her most beautiful in pics 1-2. Girl's success at avoiding the wall was less remarkable than John Walsh's efforts at winding his way through fatherhood uneventfully

In any event though:

Entirely too many folks of both genders create and then cling to delusions of having "made it" once their 3rd decade of life rolls around, cease putting effort into themselves, and subsequently degenerate. Not surprising then that most don't hold up well
 
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the wall is about late 40s. between 45 and 50ish. there is a window of time early 40 where some women really spruce up... often behavior is better at 40 than at 35...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have always said that 40 is the new 20 keep in mind she's rich and has access to skin treatments like the Kardashians .Also don't just go for looks alot of us have been played by great looking girls hence the purpose of this site!
 

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the wall is about late 40s.
Yes I do agree with you.
The window close at 40/45.

I know a very pretty woman, and she changed so much from 35 to 40's, but from 40 to 45 she lost every point
 

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The wall to sleep with a woman is about 35.

The wall for a woman's companionship doesn't exist.
 

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I’ve always meant to post this. I knew the woman from a while back. She has four kids now and lives in a different city. She’s around 38. I don’t know the guy, but it looks like he may have kids as well.

The first picture is from 2018, when they were both with different partners but were during the same social circle. The second picture is from a couple of months ago. They’re now engaged to each other.

This just proves that men will accept almost anything, while women will always find a suitor regardless of their circumstances.
 
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