"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Most women hit the wall in their 30's, but few, actually don't

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Duke

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In my early 30's I dated many attractive girls that were 35-45. It was kind of a niche group on the dating apps, many of them did some form of modeling in their prime. Most of the guys my age didn't want these girls because of their age. The women in this age group didn't want the guys in their age group because most of them weren't in shape. So lets just say I found a "honey hole" of talent to pick from.

Most of the time its girls that can look 10yrs younger than they actually are, have good genetics, and take care of their skin.

Very few look good after 50. Skin only stays elastic for so long and eventually gravity wins.
 

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Depends on from what angle you look at it.

If you know or knew a woman in her 20's and meet her again 10 years later ...she might've declined. But if you meet her for the first time at lets say 34 she can still ne sexy, pretty have charisma ect.

I do have to say that its sometimes staggering to see how cruel father time can be...one "superpower " that men CAN devolpe is the knowledge of understanding that that pretty woman will definitely get less pretty as time moves on. Great way to get over a woman you've fancied...
 

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Weisz was at her most beautiful in pics 1-2. Girl's success at avoiding the wall was less remarkable than John Walsh's efforts at winding his way through fatherhood uneventfully

In any event though:

Entirely too many folks of both genders create and then cling to delusions of having "made it" once their 3rd decade of life rolls around, cease putting effort into themselves, and subsequently degenerate. Not surprising then that most don't hold up well
 
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the wall is about late 40s. between 45 and 50ish. there is a window of time early 40 where some women really spruce up... often behavior is better at 40 than at 35...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I have always said that 40 is the new 20 keep in mind she's rich and has access to skin treatments like the Kardashians .Also don't just go for looks alot of us have been played by great looking girls hence the purpose of this site!
 

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The wall to sleep with a woman is about 35.

The wall for a woman's companionship doesn't exist.
 
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