"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Following on from another thread.
I’d like to gather from youse guys how you would rate this guys face below on the 1-10 scale.
He has sunnies on here. But has eyes like the actor Raul Julia if that makes any difference.
 

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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@Cheeky_James you want me to judge a dude's face when the photo is black & white without being able to see his eyes...?
correct. Yes I am.

seriously dude, I’ve given you guys a photo of a dudes face. It’s clear his face proportions and ratios. His cranio facials. His jawline, his hair and hairline. His skull shape , his nose .his smile and his teeth (ffs):rolleyes: it’s all fvcking right there dude.

And you fellas (of course )will still manage to nitpick about BS and try deflect (“I can’t it’s a B&W photo bro” LMFAO)

Eyes like Raul Julia the actor..
He’s a Latin guy and has those dark ringed ‘sexy’ eyes imo.
Very very much like this look here.
Just give me your rating and opinions on his face and handsomeness etc. it’s a pretty simple question to ask on a pickup forum I would have thought.

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correct. Yes I am.

seriously dude, I’ve given you guys a photo of a dudes face. It’s clear his face proportions and ratios. His cranio facials. His jawline, his hair and hairline. His skull shape , his nose .his smile and his teeth (ffs):rolleyes: it’s all fvcking right there dude.

And you fellas (of course )will still manage to nitpick about BS and try deflect (“I can’t it’s a B&W photo bro” LMFAO)

Eyes like Raul Julia the actor..
He’s a Latin guy and has those dark ringed ‘sexy’ eyes imo.
Very very much like this look here.
Just give me your rating and opinions on his face and handsomeness etc. it’s a pretty simple question to ask on a pickup forum I would have thought.

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Considering you went through the trouble of scribbling out tattoos...is that gentleman you?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Considering you went through the trouble of scribbling out tattoos...is that gentleman you?
that’s actually irrelevant ? Stop deflecting dude.
It’s a simple question.
Just give a simple answer

rate another dudes face on a 1-10 scale.
Simple AF question.
 

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@BPH with your 6/10 :rolleyes:

man you guys on here are coping so fvckin hard it’s not funny.
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That first guy is GEORGE CLOONEY btw.

just in case you can’t tell the fvcking difference .:rolleyes:
And if George is a 10 face (and he fvcking IS btw)

Then this 6 of yours is a 9 buddy.
he’s a 9 /10 faced guy.
 

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@BPH with your 6/10 :rolleyes:

man you guys on here are coping so fvckin hard it’s not funny.
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That first guy is GEORGE CLOONEY btw.

just in case you can’t tell the fvcking difference .:rolleyes:
And if George is a 10 face (and he fvcking IS btw)

Then this 6 of yours is a 9 buddy.
he’s a 9 /10 faced guy.
K. I don't know why you seem so invested in this but alright.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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K. I don't know why you seem so invested in this but alright.
because this whole forum runs on a fallacy tbh.
That’s all. Just keeping it real bro.
No one except yourself an 1 or 2 guys shows their face. But yet gives out advice to other anonymous guys. Advice without the proper context to it , as in ie -what the guy LOOKS like. What face and how tall he is , what ethnicity , age, location etc etc . And gives it out to another guy.

It’s this in meme form;



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because this whole forum runs on a fallacy tbh.
That’s all. Just keeping it real bro.
No one except yourself an 1 or 2 guys shows their face. But yet gives out advice to other anonymous guys. Advice without the proper context to it , as in ie -what the guy LOOKS like. What face and how tall he is , what ethnicity , age, location etc etc . And gives it out to another guy.

It’s this in meme form;



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Alright, here I'll give a more in-depth answer...

He's conventionally attractive but not really outstanding in any way. He doesn't have dimples. He doesn't have a chiseled jawline. He doesn't have particularly high cheekbones. It looks like his hair might be combed forward because it might be receding or thinning. I have no idea what his eyes look like, nor do I know his complexion.

He's above average, hence the 6, but is not going to stand out based purely on the attractiveness of his face.
 

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correct. Yes I am.

seriously dude, I’ve given you guys a photo of a dudes face. It’s clear his face proportions and ratios. His cranio facials. His jawline, his hair and hairline. His skull shape , his nose .his smile and his teeth (ffs):rolleyes: it’s all fvcking right there dude.

And you fellas (of course )will still manage to nitpick about BS and try deflect (“I can’t it’s a B&W photo bro” LMFAO)

Eyes like Raul Julia the actor..
He’s a Latin guy and has those dark ringed ‘sexy’ eyes imo.
Very very much like this look here.
Just give me your rating and opinions on his face and handsomeness etc. it’s a pretty simple question to ask on a pickup forum I would have thought.

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because this whole forum runs on a fallacy tbh.
That’s all. Just keeping it real bro.
No one except yourself an 1 or 2 guys shows their face. But yet gives out advice to other anonymous guys. Advice without the proper context to it , as in ie -what the guy LOOKS like. What face and how tall he is , what ethnicity , age, location etc etc . And gives it out to another guy.

It’s this in meme form;



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This is a societal problem. Dudes are and have always been overly competitive in regards to women. Women, meanwhile tend to adopt a united front and one can see what current society has become.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This is a societal problem. Dudes are and have always been overly competitive in regards to women. Women, meanwhile tend to adopt a united front and one can see what current society has become.
so are you saying SoSuave members give out crap advice deliberately? To prevent the competition for their women from other anonymous dudes?

That would make sense yeah. Good point! :up::p
 

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So what’s that serial killer guy above on a 1-10 scale dude , based on his Face.

chicks love serial killers btw. Sexual fantasy, Dark Triad ,Dom Sub stuff. Maybe tap into that ;)
They also like when they ask how can they find you and you tell them "just look for the guy with the biggest shoulders in the place and you'll find me." ;)
 

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Alright, here I'll give a more in-depth answer...

He's conventionally attractive but not really outstanding in any way. He doesn't have dimples. He doesn't have a chiseled jawline. He doesn't have particularly high cheekbones. It looks like his hair might be combed forward because it might be receding or thinning. I have no idea what his eyes look like, nor do I know his complexion.

He's above average, hence the 6, but is not going to stand out based purely on the attractiveness of his face.
well that’s interesting BPH.
Cos Ive known this guy for a years. He was a mentor and his game was insane.
It would smoke your game or anyone else on the forum most likely. And he would have surpassed your laycount too.
He pulled off some mad sh1t w women. With a completely different kind of Game.

And re his face he was very Handsome, more like an 8 or 9 Face. You’re underrating him.
He was almost Clooney-Lite. W thick Latin hair, great hair.
And great ‘evil eyes’ like Raul Julia .

So your assessment is way off.
He was a proper Latin Seducer guy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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