"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Rate this guys face plz

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Following on from another thread.
I’d like to gather from youse guys how you would rate this guys face below on the 1-10 scale.
He has sunnies on here. But has eyes like the actor Raul Julia if that makes any difference.
 

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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@Cheeky_James you want me to judge a dude's face when the photo is black & white without being able to see his eyes...?
correct. Yes I am.

seriously dude, I’ve given you guys a photo of a dudes face. It’s clear his face proportions and ratios. His cranio facials. His jawline, his hair and hairline. His skull shape , his nose .his smile and his teeth (ffs):rolleyes: it’s all fvcking right there dude.

And you fellas (of course )will still manage to nitpick about BS and try deflect (“I can’t it’s a B&W photo bro” LMFAO)

Eyes like Raul Julia the actor..
He’s a Latin guy and has those dark ringed ‘sexy’ eyes imo.
Very very much like this look here.
Just give me your rating and opinions on his face and handsomeness etc. it’s a pretty simple question to ask on a pickup forum I would have thought.

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correct. Yes I am.

seriously dude, I’ve given you guys a photo of a dudes face. It’s clear his face proportions and ratios. His cranio facials. His jawline, his hair and hairline. His skull shape , his nose .his smile and his teeth (ffs):rolleyes: it’s all fvcking right there dude.

And you fellas (of course )will still manage to nitpick about BS and try deflect (“I can’t it’s a B&W photo bro” LMFAO)

Eyes like Raul Julia the actor..
He’s a Latin guy and has those dark ringed ‘sexy’ eyes imo.
Very very much like this look here.
Just give me your rating and opinions on his face and handsomeness etc. it’s a pretty simple question to ask on a pickup forum I would have thought.

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Considering you went through the trouble of scribbling out tattoos...is that gentleman you?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Considering you went through the trouble of scribbling out tattoos...is that gentleman you?
that’s actually irrelevant ? Stop deflecting dude.
It’s a simple question.
Just give a simple answer

rate another dudes face on a 1-10 scale.
Simple AF question.
 

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@BPH with your 6/10 :rolleyes:

man you guys on here are coping so fvckin hard it’s not funny.
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That first guy is GEORGE CLOONEY btw.

just in case you can’t tell the fvcking difference .:rolleyes:
And if George is a 10 face (and he fvcking IS btw)

Then this 6 of yours is a 9 buddy.
he’s a 9 /10 faced guy.
 

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@BPH with your 6/10 :rolleyes:

man you guys on here are coping so fvckin hard it’s not funny.
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That first guy is GEORGE CLOONEY btw.

just in case you can’t tell the fvcking difference .:rolleyes:
And if George is a 10 face (and he fvcking IS btw)

Then this 6 of yours is a 9 buddy.
he’s a 9 /10 faced guy.
K. I don't know why you seem so invested in this but alright.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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K. I don't know why you seem so invested in this but alright.
because this whole forum runs on a fallacy tbh.
That’s all. Just keeping it real bro.
No one except yourself an 1 or 2 guys shows their face. But yet gives out advice to other anonymous guys. Advice without the proper context to it , as in ie -what the guy LOOKS like. What face and how tall he is , what ethnicity , age, location etc etc . And gives it out to another guy.

It’s this in meme form;



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because this whole forum runs on a fallacy tbh.
That’s all. Just keeping it real bro.
No one except yourself an 1 or 2 guys shows their face. But yet gives out advice to other anonymous guys. Advice without the proper context to it , as in ie -what the guy LOOKS like. What face and how tall he is , what ethnicity , age, location etc etc . And gives it out to another guy.

It’s this in meme form;



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Alright, here I'll give a more in-depth answer...

He's conventionally attractive but not really outstanding in any way. He doesn't have dimples. He doesn't have a chiseled jawline. He doesn't have particularly high cheekbones. It looks like his hair might be combed forward because it might be receding or thinning. I have no idea what his eyes look like, nor do I know his complexion.

He's above average, hence the 6, but is not going to stand out based purely on the attractiveness of his face.
 

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correct. Yes I am.

seriously dude, I’ve given you guys a photo of a dudes face. It’s clear his face proportions and ratios. His cranio facials. His jawline, his hair and hairline. His skull shape , his nose .his smile and his teeth (ffs):rolleyes: it’s all fvcking right there dude.

And you fellas (of course )will still manage to nitpick about BS and try deflect (“I can’t it’s a B&W photo bro” LMFAO)

Eyes like Raul Julia the actor..
He’s a Latin guy and has those dark ringed ‘sexy’ eyes imo.
Very very much like this look here.
Just give me your rating and opinions on his face and handsomeness etc. it’s a pretty simple question to ask on a pickup forum I would have thought.

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because this whole forum runs on a fallacy tbh.
That’s all. Just keeping it real bro.
No one except yourself an 1 or 2 guys shows their face. But yet gives out advice to other anonymous guys. Advice without the proper context to it , as in ie -what the guy LOOKS like. What face and how tall he is , what ethnicity , age, location etc etc . And gives it out to another guy.

It’s this in meme form;



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This is a societal problem. Dudes are and have always been overly competitive in regards to women. Women, meanwhile tend to adopt a united front and one can see what current society has become.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This is a societal problem. Dudes are and have always been overly competitive in regards to women. Women, meanwhile tend to adopt a united front and one can see what current society has become.
so are you saying SoSuave members give out crap advice deliberately? To prevent the competition for their women from other anonymous dudes?

That would make sense yeah. Good point! :up::p
 

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So what’s that serial killer guy above on a 1-10 scale dude , based on his Face.

chicks love serial killers btw. Sexual fantasy, Dark Triad ,Dom Sub stuff. Maybe tap into that ;)
They also like when they ask how can they find you and you tell them "just look for the guy with the biggest shoulders in the place and you'll find me." ;)
 

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Alright, here I'll give a more in-depth answer...

He's conventionally attractive but not really outstanding in any way. He doesn't have dimples. He doesn't have a chiseled jawline. He doesn't have particularly high cheekbones. It looks like his hair might be combed forward because it might be receding or thinning. I have no idea what his eyes look like, nor do I know his complexion.

He's above average, hence the 6, but is not going to stand out based purely on the attractiveness of his face.
well that’s interesting BPH.
Cos Ive known this guy for a years. He was a mentor and his game was insane.
It would smoke your game or anyone else on the forum most likely. And he would have surpassed your laycount too.
He pulled off some mad sh1t w women. With a completely different kind of Game.

And re his face he was very Handsome, more like an 8 or 9 Face. You’re underrating him.
He was almost Clooney-Lite. W thick Latin hair, great hair.
And great ‘evil eyes’ like Raul Julia .

So your assessment is way off.
He was a proper Latin Seducer guy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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