MatureDJ
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When the only thing on available to a man is a fatty or tranny, no wonder he loses desire.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Why Are Men Losing Sexual Desire?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MatureDJ
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The most I was able to do in a 24-hour period was 8. Cost me like 500 guilders.
rambambram
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Super relevant and underrated comment. It might be a good job financially speaking (I also did it), whole days of sitting inside stressing over abstract stuff in your head (and dealing with office politics at the same time) do not make it a good job physically and spiritually speaking. That's why I quit such a job (still do it for my own business, so I make my own agenda) and now work my body with manual labor as a side job.
P.S. Pick a side job carefully! Exhausting your body with manual labor might be just as bad. Walking around, carrying not too heavy stuff and twisting your body in all kinds of angles keeps the body and mind fresh. Only when you have balance, you feel your natural horniness come back.
Was with you until you said "middle aged woman"
At some point you will lose interest in having s*x with a woman you are seeing. The hotter the woman, the more amazing the s*x and the less frequently you see her, the longer this will take. But it’s inevitable; there are no exceptions.
And when this happens the desire to experience a new or a different woman will be much greater than the desire for your current one.
Why do you think Leonardo De Caprio looks bored most of the time despite his ability to pull more women than the average guy? Even he experiences this.
And when this happens the desire to experience a new or a different woman will be much greater than the desire for your current one.
Why do you think Leonardo De Caprio looks bored most of the time despite his ability to pull more women than the average guy? Even he experiences this.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
HaleyBaron
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When you're horny, even they look appetizing. I'm ashamed to say it.
I’ve always felt that Leo’s dumping of his girlfriends once they reached 25 was subconscious to a degree. Once they lost their youth he just naturally lost attraction and moved on. An average guy will lose attraction, but it’s difficult for him to attract a younger woman, so he stays.
HaleyBaron
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Leo is addicted to getting any woman he wants. He's living the dream, and I'd say he could die happy.
The one thing he lacks is a child to carry his legacy and that's the part he will come to terms with.
For me the two biggest variables have been the amount of stress in my life and my level of physical fitness. Even in my 50s living a stress free life and being in good shape has resulted in a strong libido. During my 30s or 40s I was much more stressed with work or relationship issues, not to mention being overweight, and I had so little libido I thought I was impotent. Obviously there can be other reasons for folks but those have been the two that have impacted me most.
tksniper
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In my 20's I used to be able to get off to any woman. In my 30's she had to be semi attractive. In my 40's she HAS to be attractive.
I wouldn't say I "lost" my sex. It's more like it took me into my 40's for my sex drive to stabilize because I no longer have raging hormones.
Guys don't start off with a 100% sex drive. They start off with a 500% sex drive that gradually goes to 100% as they mature in age.
The biggest misconception is that teenage guys have the perfect sex drives. It's literally uncontrollable and makes you think with your penis and do dumb/risky things. Some guys would like through their teeth and promise a girl the world just to hit it and quit it.
I wouldn't say I "lost" my sex. It's more like it took me into my 40's for my sex drive to stabilize because I no longer have raging hormones.
Guys don't start off with a 100% sex drive. They start off with a 500% sex drive that gradually goes to 100% as they mature in age.
The biggest misconception is that teenage guys have the perfect sex drives. It's literally uncontrollable and makes you think with your penis and do dumb/risky things. Some guys would like through their teeth and promise a girl the world just to hit it and quit it.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yes, I have noticed the women has to be more attractive in order for me to maintain an erection. When I was 25 I had sex with a woman who was nearly 300lbs. Don’t know if that would work out at 39.
Bingo-Player
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Men will always desire sex , the problem is they lose desire for it with the same person
We were never built to be in 20,30,40 year relationships with one woman its a social construct designed by Churches and governments
You put a young chick in lingerie in her 20's in front of any man and given half the chance he will fvck her senseless
We were never built to be in 20,30,40 year relationships with one woman its a social construct designed by Churches and governments
You put a young chick in lingerie in her 20's in front of any man and given half the chance he will fvck her senseless