Why Are Men Losing Sexual Desire?

[HaleyBaron]

A heavy work load has always sucked the sexual desire out of me. The more free time I have, the more I want sex.

Until you fantasize about the middle aged woman at work bending her over the desk and ****ing her during after office hours. Or even during office hours with the office door closed. I lift weights, so my mind wanders everyday.

 

[MatureDJ]

Lack of attractive, fertile women.

When the only thing on available to a man is a fatty or tranny, no wonder he loses desire.

 

[MatureDJ]

I'm late 30s and I still need to release 3x a DAY

high natty test.

The most I was able to do in a 24-hour period was 8. Cost me like 500 guilders.

 

[rambambram]

also stress from work

Tech jobs, despite being well paid, they also come with a lot of stress and makes you extremely logical ( towards autism ) which makes you brain need more relax time

the human brain is not built for 9-5 jobs + dealing with complex and abstract stuff all the time

I was working as a data engineer at some point, and my sex drive and social skills went down the toilet while I had this tech job despite being in my late 20s

Super relevant and underrated comment. It might be a good job financially speaking (I also did it), whole days of sitting inside stressing over abstract stuff in your head (and dealing with office politics at the same time) do not make it a good job physically and spiritually speaking. That's why I quit such a job (still do it for my own business, so I make my own agenda) and now work my body with manual labor as a side job.

P.S. Pick a side job carefully! Exhausting your body with manual labor might be just as bad. Walking around, carrying not too heavy stuff and twisting your body in all kinds of angles keeps the body and mind fresh. Only when you have balance, you feel your natural horniness come back.

 

[BadBoy89]

Until you fantasize about the middle aged woman at work bending her over the desk and ****ing her during after office hours. Or even during office hours with the office door closed. I lift weights, so my mind wanders everyday.

Was with you until you said "middle aged woman"

 

[DJ Novice]

At some point you will lose interest in having s*x with a woman you are seeing. The hotter the woman, the more amazing the s*x and the less frequently you see her, the longer this will take. But it’s inevitable; there are no exceptions.

And when this happens the desire to experience a new or a different woman will be much greater than the desire for your current one.

Why do you think Leonardo De Caprio looks bored most of the time despite his ability to pull more women than the average guy? Even he experiences this.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Was with you until you said "middle aged woman"

When you're horny, even they look appetizing. I'm ashamed to say it.

 

[Snag87]

At some point you will lose interest in having s*x with a woman you are seeing. The hotter the woman, the more amazing the s*x and the less frequently you see her, the longer this will take. But it’s inevitable; there are no exceptions.

And when this happens the desire to experience a new or a different woman will be much greater than the desire for your current one.

Why do you think Leonardo De Caprio looks bored most of the time despite his ability to pull more women than the average guy? Even he experiences this.

I’ve always felt that Leo’s dumping of his girlfriends once they reached 25 was subconscious to a degree. Once they lost their youth he just naturally lost attraction and moved on. An average guy will lose attraction, but it’s difficult for him to attract a younger woman, so he stays.

 

[HaleyBaron]

I’ve always felt that Leo’s dumping of his girlfriends once they reached 25 was subconscious to a degree. Once they lost their youth he just naturally lost attraction and moved on. An average guy will lose attraction, but it’s difficult for him to attract a younger woman, so he stays.

Leo is addicted to getting any woman he wants. He's living the dream, and I'd say he could die happy.

The one thing he lacks is a child to carry his legacy and that's the part he will come to terms with.

 

[Hal9000]

For me the two biggest variables have been the amount of stress in my life and my level of physical fitness. Even in my 50s living a stress free life and being in good shape has resulted in a strong libido. During my 30s or 40s I was much more stressed with work or relationship issues, not to mention being overweight, and I had so little libido I thought I was impotent. Obviously there can be other reasons for folks but those have been the two that have impacted me most.

 

[tksniper]

In my 20's I used to be able to get off to any woman. In my 30's she had to be semi attractive. In my 40's she HAS to be attractive.

I wouldn't say I "lost" my sex. It's more like it took me into my 40's for my sex drive to stabilize because I no longer have raging hormones.

Guys don't start off with a 100% sex drive. They start off with a 500% sex drive that gradually goes to 100% as they mature in age.

The biggest misconception is that teenage guys have the perfect sex drives. It's literally uncontrollable and makes you think with your penis and do dumb/risky things. Some guys would like through their teeth and promise a girl the world just to hit it and quit it.