"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Instagram DM is a waste of time. Don't do it. Keep it brief just like any texting.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Roll off for a bit. A day or two. And if she doesn't initiate back, you ping for once (preferably voice note, a meme or something), and then after she responds, straight up offer to meet. Whether it's coffee or the pilates thing.

I would probably go for a regular date, because otherwise you are too much in her frame. Unless you are genuinely curious to try that stuff. Then go try it but don't hit on her too much. And don't be a nice friendly guy too. Just spike and challenge. While being cool, calm & collected.

You got this!
 
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Nothing is happening with this girl, IMO.

Also Pilates are pretty amazing for people who lift heavy for a long time because it causes the muscles to shorten and limits the range of motion, so Pilates helps to stretch the muscles back out, increasing the range of motion and promote size and strength gains.

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Bigpapa said:
Better to maximize the likelihood of a yes and shooting your shot, than not shooting your shot because the likelihood of success is low

at the end of the day is a numbers game, and a good proportion of the time is not because of you

what we can do is to improve the likelihood of a yes as much as it is up to us

I think the most painful things are when the vibe is good but she is dodging meeting with you, or when she meets with you things are electric and then you never manage to see her again or starts playing games
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Oh I agree, I'm just disagreeing with OP thinking he has her in the bag.
 
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Oh I agree, I'm just disagreeing with OP thinking he has her in the bag.
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I’ve recovered and dealt with much worse to know that this can be recovered if I do it right. I can continue the path I know and make it a longer path to success or ask if anyone on here knows a shorter path to success.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I’ve recovered and dealt with much worse to know that this can be recovered if I do it right. I can continue the path I know and make it a longer path to success or ask if anyone on here knows a shorter path to success.
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Stop wasting time with disinterested women and find interested ones.
 
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There is interest as she's playing along " would be fun to torture you in a class " isn't being polite it's investing in the conversation its not something you would say in small talk lol

OP's responses were poor and the chick knows she holds all the cards that is the problem theres zero tension or flirting
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Yes, there is an interest alright. An interest in selling him a ticket.
 
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I’ve recovered and dealt with much worse to know that this can be recovered if I do it right. I can continue the path I know and make it a longer path to success or ask if anyone on here knows a shorter path to success.
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But you're not doing it right. You're starting to sound like you have oneitis. Your way to success at this point is literally just leaving her alone. You've already told this woman that you have no redeeming physical attributes, while casting jealous shade on the fact that she gave a personal lesson to other men. I would just step away from the DM.
 
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