HaleyBaron
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Instagram DM is a waste of time. Don't do it. Keep it brief just like any texting.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
crowolf
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Roll off for a bit. A day or two. And if she doesn't initiate back, you ping for once (preferably voice note, a meme or something), and then after she responds, straight up offer to meet. Whether it's coffee or the pilates thing.
I would probably go for a regular date, because otherwise you are too much in her frame. Unless you are genuinely curious to try that stuff. Then go try it but don't hit on her too much. And don't be a nice friendly guy too. Just spike and challenge. While being cool, calm & collected.
You got this!
I would probably go for a regular date, because otherwise you are too much in her frame. Unless you are genuinely curious to try that stuff. Then go try it but don't hit on her too much. And don't be a nice friendly guy too. Just spike and challenge. While being cool, calm & collected.
You got this!
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BackInTheGame78
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Nothing is happening with this girl, IMO.
Also Pilates are pretty amazing for people who lift heavy for a long time because it causes the muscles to shorten and limits the range of motion, so Pilates helps to stretch the muscles back out, increasing the range of motion and promote size and strength gains.
FYI.
Also Pilates are pretty amazing for people who lift heavy for a long time because it causes the muscles to shorten and limits the range of motion, so Pilates helps to stretch the muscles back out, increasing the range of motion and promote size and strength gains.
FYI.
BackInTheGame78
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Oh I agree, I'm just disagreeing with OP thinking he has her in the bag.
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I’ve recovered and dealt with much worse to know that this can be recovered if I do it right. I can continue the path I know and make it a longer path to success or ask if anyone on here knows a shorter path to success.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Stop wasting time with disinterested women and find interested ones.
Bokanovsky
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Yes, there is an interest alright. An interest in selling him a ticket.
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But you're not doing it right. You're starting to sound like you have oneitis. Your way to success at this point is literally just leaving her alone. You've already told this woman that you have no redeeming physical attributes, while casting jealous shade on the fact that she gave a personal lesson to other men. I would just step away from the DM.
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