HaleyBaron
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Instagram DM is a waste of time. Don't do it. Keep it brief just like any texting.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Instagram dm game advice
- Thread starter steeringclear
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
crowolf
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Roll off for a bit. A day or two. And if she doesn't initiate back, you ping for once (preferably voice note, a meme or something), and then after she responds, straight up offer to meet. Whether it's coffee or the pilates thing.
I would probably go for a regular date, because otherwise you are too much in her frame. Unless you are genuinely curious to try that stuff. Then go try it but don't hit on her too much. And don't be a nice friendly guy too. Just spike and challenge. While being cool, calm & collected.
You got this!
I would probably go for a regular date, because otherwise you are too much in her frame. Unless you are genuinely curious to try that stuff. Then go try it but don't hit on her too much. And don't be a nice friendly guy too. Just spike and challenge. While being cool, calm & collected.
You got this!
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BackInTheGame78
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Nothing is happening with this girl, IMO.
Also Pilates are pretty amazing for people who lift heavy for a long time because it causes the muscles to shorten and limits the range of motion, so Pilates helps to stretch the muscles back out, increasing the range of motion and promote size and strength gains.
FYI.
Also Pilates are pretty amazing for people who lift heavy for a long time because it causes the muscles to shorten and limits the range of motion, so Pilates helps to stretch the muscles back out, increasing the range of motion and promote size and strength gains.
FYI.
BackInTheGame78
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Oh I agree, I'm just disagreeing with OP thinking he has her in the bag.
steeringclear
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I’ve recovered and dealt with much worse to know that this can be recovered if I do it right. I can continue the path I know and make it a longer path to success or ask if anyone on here knows a shorter path to success.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
BackInTheGame78
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Stop wasting time with disinterested women and find interested ones.
Bokanovsky
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Yes, there is an interest alright. An interest in selling him a ticket.
Divorced w 3
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But you're not doing it right. You're starting to sound like you have oneitis. Your way to success at this point is literally just leaving her alone. You've already told this woman that you have no redeeming physical attributes, while casting jealous shade on the fact that she gave a personal lesson to other men. I would just step away from the DM.
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