"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Novice1

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An army officer, eh?

6 year army vet here.

Shout out to you on your path :up:



Ok, before we begin to discuss strategies...what are your current relationship goals?

Are you looking for a long-term romantic partner? (girlfriend, wife).

Or something casual with no long-term monogamous commits (friends with benefits?).
i want casuals, will commit 100% of my 20s on this dream of mine.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cheeky_James

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Brother im 8(smv), I'm mascular and 5'8
I just saw your pic.
Hmmmm I think you are over-rating your smv honestly. Sorry dude,
At 5’8 tall with your face and physique of the pic ..
Idk .. 6-7 honestly I reckon.
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there’s a guy online Scotty GLL - check out his YT channel, his image and infield pickup videos.

He’s was/is a weightlifter afaik and has tattoos.

also read some stuff by 60YOC and especially his advice on “risking sleazy” with women.

I think a BadBoy makeover would be a good idea for you. Just my 2c.
This is Scotty.
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Cheeky_James

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just got my haircut (taper fade), my testosterone is oozing hahahahaha
Have the hair high on top to give more height …
I edited last post and added pics of this Scotty guy fyi
He’s slimmed down these days. He used to be a tank back in the old days w the bodybuilder physique.
 

Novice1

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Have the hair high on top to give more height …
I edited last post and added pics of this Scotty guy fyi
He’s slimmed down these days. He used to be a tank back in the old days w the bodybuilder physique.
I just saw your pic.
Hmmmm I think you are over-rating your smv honestly. Sorry dude,
At 5’8 tall with your face and physique of the pic ..
Idk .. 6-7 honestly I reckon.
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there’s a guy online Scotty GLL - check out his YT channel, his image and infield pickup videos.

He’s was/is a weightlifter afaik and has tattoos.

also read some stuff by 60YOC and especially his advice on “risking sleazy” with women.

I think a BadBoy makeover would be a good idea for you. Just my 2c.
This is Scotty.
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army here won't allow tattoos
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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