"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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An army officer, eh?

6 year army vet here.

Shout out to you on your path :up:



Ok, before we begin to discuss strategies...what are your current relationship goals?

Are you looking for a long-term romantic partner? (girlfriend, wife).

Or something casual with no long-term monogamous commits (friends with benefits?).
i want casuals, will commit 100% of my 20s on this dream of mine.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Brother im 8(smv), I'm mascular and 5'8
I just saw your pic.
Hmmmm I think you are over-rating your smv honestly. Sorry dude,
At 5’8 tall with your face and physique of the pic ..
Idk .. 6-7 honestly I reckon.
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there’s a guy online Scotty GLL - check out his YT channel, his image and infield pickup videos.

He’s was/is a weightlifter afaik and has tattoos.

also read some stuff by 60YOC and especially his advice on “risking sleazy” with women.

I think a BadBoy makeover would be a good idea for you. Just my 2c.
This is Scotty.
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Cheeky_James

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just got my haircut (taper fade), my testosterone is oozing hahahahaha
Have the hair high on top to give more height …
I edited last post and added pics of this Scotty guy fyi
He’s slimmed down these days. He used to be a tank back in the old days w the bodybuilder physique.
 

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Have the hair high on top to give more height …
I edited last post and added pics of this Scotty guy fyi
He’s slimmed down these days. He used to be a tank back in the old days w the bodybuilder physique.
I just saw your pic.
Hmmmm I think you are over-rating your smv honestly. Sorry dude,
At 5’8 tall with your face and physique of the pic ..
Idk .. 6-7 honestly I reckon.
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there’s a guy online Scotty GLL - check out his YT channel, his image and infield pickup videos.

He’s was/is a weightlifter afaik and has tattoos.

also read some stuff by 60YOC and especially his advice on “risking sleazy” with women.

I think a BadBoy makeover would be a good idea for you. Just my 2c.
This is Scotty.
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army here won't allow tattoos
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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