"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Got matched on fb dating, i invited her to fish and hike and thats nextweek friday. im filipino - cebuano to be exact. This is a big progress boys and sir's
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'm pretty sure in the UK these foreign girls (can be 3rd or 4th gen by now) get overlooked a lot, and get lumped into the "Muslim, no point trying".

Even those that aren't Muslim (plenty) don't like our ridiculous culture of excess drinking around everything. As a non drinker myself, not really enamoured with our "evening scene" any more they are a pleasant cohort although their looks are wildly binary. Attention off a sober white man is novel to them.

Good luck.
 

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I'm pretty sure in the UK these foreign girls (can be 3rd or 4th gen by now) get overlooked a lot, and get lumped into the "Muslim, no point trying".

Even those that aren't Muslim (plenty) don't like our ridiculous culture of excess drinking around everything. As a non drinker myself, not really enamoured with our "evening scene" any more they are a pleasant cohort although their looks are wildly binary. Attention off a sober white man is novel to them.

Good luck.
Muslim there and here in my country is very different (as what they told me) i think rejection is better than regret anyways
 

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Got matched on fb dating, i invited her to fish and hike and thats nextweek friday. im filipino - cebuano to be exact. This is a big progress boys and sir's
Let us know how it goes
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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