"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Man mountain depressed over woman

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Lawrence dallgadio is selling his world cup winners medal because he has been declared bankrupt after a divorce. He is also selling a load of other stuff like lions caps. He said he has been wallowing in self pity and divorce hit him really hard.

I do remember he had a tragedy in his life, his sister passed away many years ago.

Just goes to show that even the strongest of men can be affected from women. Lawrence is a man mountain of a man and he is very well spoken. Seems a top man.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A woman can do all manner of damage to a man, especially if she's vindictive (and many are), and the more he's got to lose the more harm she can cause.

I would never advise a man to get married nowadays, whoever he is. The odds are just too stacked against him. It's simply not a wise move anymore.
 

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Man mountain is actually a mental dwarf...

I keep saying! THIS shyt happens once a man is hell bound on "living traditionally " . All dude had to do was keep her (heart) at distance. Make it HER idea. And gradually and reluctantly progressing the relationship. Especially as a celebrity...

She constantly needs to know she can be replaced in a heartbeat and that he wouldn't even mind doing it as "new p00sy " is always a good thing...

Yes I'm judgemental. No ,I wasn't a fly in the wall so yes im making assumptions. But generally speaking THIS is how relationships tend to go; the man actually wants it more than the woman and thus he puts himself in a weak position from the start.

Even here man dokr wanna listen and keep pursuing long term relationships instead of keeping distance and letting the woman NATURALLY feel like she earned her spot.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Man mountain is actually a mental dwarf...

I keep saying! THIS shyt happens once a man is hell bound on "living traditionally " . All dude had to do was keep her (heart) at distance. Make it HER idea. And gradually and reluctantly progressing the relationship. Especially as a celebrity...

She constantly needs to know she can be replaced in a heartbeat and that he wouldn't even mind doing it as "new p00sy " is always a good thing...

Yes I'm judgemental. No ,I wasn't a fly in the wall so yes im making assumptions. But generally speaking THIS is how relationships tend to go; the man actually wants it more than the woman and thus he puts himself in a weak position from the start.

Even here man dokr wanna listen and keep pursuing long term relationships instead of keeping distance and letting the woman NATURALLY feel like she earned her spot.
Yeah, but women will want a LTR at some point or they will walk away, i have never marreid though, i have had women in LTR's pushing very hard for marriage, but it was a no from me, one walked.
 
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