"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Best pickup/direct approach/seduction scenes in movies, post yours here

Guitar_Whizz

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I thought I'd start a thread on some of the best pickup/approach/seduction scenes from movies, TV shows etc. What are yours, and are there any that have particularly motivated and inspired you? Please post them here and if you like, explain why they inspired you and what can be learned from the scene.

When it comes to approaching, seducing and interacting with women, I prefer the direct approach so most of my favourite scenes are direct ones. However, feel free to post direct or indirect scenes here.

I'll post a few, but to start with, one of my favourite ever direct approach/seduction scenes is from the movie 'The Witches Of Eastwick' where Jack Nicholson's character seduces Cher's character. He's very direct, remains calm in the face of her harsh criticism/insults (i.e '**** tests') and 5 minutes or so later ends up seducing her....

 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cheeky_James

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I like this one , it’s quite realistic

And the simplicity of this one.. “it’s all in the eyes”

It’s all in the first IOIs exchanged,
eye contact and reading the womans face and micro expressions is probably the most important key skill of pickup.

The most simple pickup on film-From the movie Spread with Ashton Kutcher

 
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