"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Best pickup/direct approach/seduction scenes in movies, post yours here

Guitar_Whizz

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I thought I'd start a thread on some of the best pickup/approach/seduction scenes from movies, TV shows etc. What are yours, and are there any that have particularly motivated and inspired you? Please post them here and if you like, explain why they inspired you and what can be learned from the scene.

When it comes to approaching, seducing and interacting with women, I prefer the direct approach so most of my favourite scenes are direct ones. However, feel free to post direct or indirect scenes here.

I'll post a few, but to start with, one of my favourite ever direct approach/seduction scenes is from the movie 'The Witches Of Eastwick' where Jack Nicholson's character seduces Cher's character. He's very direct, remains calm in the face of her harsh criticism/insults (i.e '**** tests') and 5 minutes or so later ends up seducing her....

 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Cheeky_James

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I like this one , it’s quite realistic

And the simplicity of this one.. “it’s all in the eyes”

It’s all in the first IOIs exchanged,
eye contact and reading the womans face and micro expressions is probably the most important key skill of pickup.

The most simple pickup on film-From the movie Spread with Ashton Kutcher

 
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