"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Best pickup/direct approach/seduction scenes in movies, post yours here

Guitar_Whizz

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I thought I'd start a thread on some of the best pickup/approach/seduction scenes from movies, TV shows etc. What are yours, and are there any that have particularly motivated and inspired you? Please post them here and if you like, explain why they inspired you and what can be learned from the scene.

When it comes to approaching, seducing and interacting with women, I prefer the direct approach so most of my favourite scenes are direct ones. However, feel free to post direct or indirect scenes here.

I'll post a few, but to start with, one of my favourite ever direct approach/seduction scenes is from the movie 'The Witches Of Eastwick' where Jack Nicholson's character seduces Cher's character. He's very direct, remains calm in the face of her harsh criticism/insults (i.e '**** tests') and 5 minutes or so later ends up seducing her....

 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cheeky_James

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I like this one , it’s quite realistic

And the simplicity of this one.. “it’s all in the eyes”

It’s all in the first IOIs exchanged,
eye contact and reading the womans face and micro expressions is probably the most important key skill of pickup.

The most simple pickup on film-From the movie Spread with Ashton Kutcher

 
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