"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Obesity/fat pandemic in USA has destroyed the chances of healthy weight mid men getting healthy weight mid women

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This healthy-weight Mid guy in America only got a Mid/looksmatch from a different nation - Uganda. His matches in USA were all obese/fat.

Before you all say he needs to change his hat and iron his t-shirt collar - it doesn't mean he wears those on a dating app.

 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This healthy-weight Mid guy in America only got a Mid/looksmatch from a different nation - Uganda. His matches in USA were all obese/fat.

Before you all say he needs to change his hat and iron his t-shirt collar - it doesn't mean he wears those on a dating app.

He's a sub-5 somewhat soyish black-hapa, so of course. And althousigh he could PassportBro, he's got to go to the real out-of-way places where there is a new civil war every year, unlike the Domanican Republic or Brazil, which are the popular places for African-American men, and so the Tyrones crowd everyone else out. And AIUI, a lot of African (in Africa) women look down on African-American men because they are a combination of being mutts (i.e., the black analogue of the "melting pot") and having ancestors that couldn't figure out how to not be enslaved (BRUTAL!), only being interested in them because of the wealth disparity, and the fact that all those civil wars have culled the young male population.

What really galls me is the trannies that seem to be all over OLD - and while it's one thing to try to pass as a cishet, now the trannies are just coming out and saying they are trannies! :mad::mad:
 
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