"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If you find yourself needing arm candy for an event, it's better just to skip the event. It's possible to skip Super Bowl parties in the friend group (often dominated by couples) or the workplace holiday party.
If people see you have no social skill in your everyday life, then you show up with a hot girl, they will know it's a pro. BELIEVE ME.
This is why I made the point that skipping events is the better play in a lot of situations.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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There is truth to this however it is not worth bringing a hooker. My fiancé is pretty cute and I brought her to a large family wedding. I did notice more respect from the guys in the room.
 

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As soon as anyone finds out that the girl is an escort, all the respect is gone. It is like finding out a hot girl is a transexual. **** this idea. Man up and go get your hot girlfreind.
 

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Most social events that you'd need arm candy for are generally worth skipping.

The couples centric events in your social circle are usually complete bullshiit. Don't go the Halloween parties, the random weekend parties, or the Super Bowl parties at someone's home.

In 2021, I had a bullshiit couples event 4th of July weekend. Only reason I went was because one of my friends who moved to another city was back in my current city.
 

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I tend to agree a hb10 is gonna be highly conspicuous but I notice a ton of girl-next-store (~SB6-7) style chicks on Seeking Arrangements, Sugarbabies, and even on cheesy Friendster type sights. A lot of these gals are on dating sites for free meals and perks anyways. It's not like I want to pay for sex and I am decent looking and well dressed, not socially awkward. I'm actually surprised there isn't a whole no-sex escort type sight just for this subset. I make a lot of money and honestly have no desire to waste time simping to sloots, just wanna have a selection of gals to show up with for an hour.

I'll report back after I run some simulations.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Not for me, had my time letting loose on these working women, not any more, and never been seen with them
 

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Imagine if you show up at an office party…

“I’d like to introduce you to my gf ‘Candy.’ I don’t know what she does for a living. She works an overnight shift and gets paid in cash. This is her ‘boss’ named ‘Snake.’ He follows her around everywhere she goes. Candy and I have been together for a year. What do you think of her?”
 

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Imagine if you show up at an office party…

“I’d like to introduce you to my gf ‘Candy.’ I don’t know what she does for a living. She works an overnight shift and gets paid in cash. This is her ‘boss’ named ‘Snake.’ He follows her around everywhere she goes. Candy and I have been together for a year. What do you think of her?”
Make a fake backstory.
 

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It's the plot of the movie Can't Buy Me Love.
Sort of.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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thing is if you are that desperate, and the girl is not famous, like shoving her face over the internet or well know in your city it can work, but like I said its pretty desperate, and its not like rich playboys don't do this anyway
Rich playboys will simply hire the chick to sex her. :rolleyes:
 

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Anyone hired a super hot escort just as arm candy? I'm in a new city and I I go to several pretty swinging events a month. I'm aquainted with a lot of peeps at these places, but I have never showed up with a date. Pretty sure that being seen with a SHB once or twice would do wonders for my SMV. Whenever I have shown up with a hot girlfriend anywhere in the past it was like being touched by the hand of god. Women are herd creatures after all.

I wonder how much practice if any you have to do with the escort first to pull it off smoothly.
if you can find them avertising on the interenet, i would say no.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This actually does work even when you arent doing it intentionally. As long as you have hot women with you, arm candy, friends, **** buddy, it does not matter. You're instantly high value.
 

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Anyone hired a super hot escort just as arm candy? I'm in a new city and I I go to several pretty swinging events a month. I'm aquainted with a lot of peeps at these places, but I have never showed up with a date. Pretty sure that being seen with a SHB once or twice would do wonders for my SMV. Whenever I have shown up with a hot girlfriend anywhere in the past it was like being touched by the hand of god. Women are herd creatures after all.

I wonder how much practice if any you have to do with the escort first to pull it off smoothly.
I remember I was dating this short girl with a very cute face and I guess we made a cute couple when we walked around, it's amazing the level of attention I suddenly got with this chick on my arm, it was like I was a ****ing invisible troll and then the second she showed up, girls were saying hi to me some girls were even speechless, I remember one girl was serving us coffee and she couldn't even utter words out of her mouth. It was so weird
 

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Anyone hired a super hot escort just as arm candy? I'm in a new city and I I go to several pretty swinging events a month. I'm aquainted with a lot of peeps at these places, but I have never showed up with a date. Pretty sure that being seen with a SHB once or twice would do wonders for my SMV. Whenever I have shown up with a hot girlfriend anywhere in the past it was like being touched by the hand of god. Women are herd creatures after all.

I wonder how much practice if any you have to do with the escort first to pull it off smoothly.
this may well be a smart angle .:up:
Better make sure she’s a great actress too and has her story straight how you guys met .,, there will be questions.
interested to hear how it goes :D

I dated a tall rocker chick back in the day,
platinum blonde , , mad tattoos , always dressed very colourful and glamorous. We’d walk around the city and café lanes .. it was like being a celebrity , everyone looked at us :oops:
Mad social proof.,,,:up::up::up:
Powerful stuff.
 
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When I was a Captain in the army (while in Europe) we had a military ball, and our Brigade commander made it VERY clear, he didn't want to see any stag officers at this event. I was a company commander and one of my platoon leaders went out and hired a Polish prostitute and brought her to the formal. It was hilarious, she only spoke Polish and couldn't communicate with anyone. The wives were less then amused, and all the Brigade commander said was... "I suppose I should have been more specific with my directive." He was something of a humorless @ss generally, but even he thought that was funny.
 

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When I was a Captain in the army (while in Europe) we had a military ball, and our Brigade commander made it VERY clear, he didn't want to see any stag officers at this event. I was a company commander and one of my platoon leaders went out and hired a Polish prostitute and brought her to the formal. It was hilarious, she only spoke Polish and couldn't communicate with anyone. The wives were less then amused, and all the Brigade commander said was... "I suppose I should have been more specific with my directive." He was something of a humorless @ss generally, but even he thought that was funny.
That’s a classic :rofl: good on him.:cool:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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