"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Will Smith and why women don't trust nice guys

mrskinnypantz

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Just goes to show what happens if you fvck around and get tied up with the wrong woman .
Obviously ,once he had kids with this black widow he was stick with her , he could have chose to co-parent and watch another dude fvck his ex wife and let the kids watch it , instead he chose to stick it out . This is what happens.
What you do and who you do it with today can effect you 10 years from now and everyday forward.
Learn from his mistakes , and be careful who you lay with.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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jhonny9546

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Sorry, I'm coming back to this post with a different perspective.

Unfortunately, things/news in Italy are brought up much later.

In Italian culture, if Willy had taken his family and left with them, he would have been seen as weak. (But someone here suggested that it would have been the move a man should have made.)

While everyone here is applauding the fact that he defended her by doing so (all the women say he was a great man for teaching that guy a lesson).

I wonder if, ultimately, being a man or a guy is more of a cultural issue.
 
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jhonny9546 said:
While everyone here is applauding the fact that he defended her by doing so (all the women say he was a great man for teaching that guy a lesson).

I wonder if, ultimately, being a man or a guy is more of a cultural issue.
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There were folks here in The US who whitewashed WS's cowardice as "chivalry". F-ck these people through their skulls with an oil drill. Anyone who mistakes championing a hood rat for "manliness" isn't worthy of being taken seriously
 
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