"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wrist Roller --- Holy Sh!t

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I've never really trained forearms that actively which admittedly has been a blind spot over the years.

Saw a Wrist Roller pop up while I was on Amazon, it was like $15 and had 4.7 stars from hundreds of reviews, so I was like, fvck it, I'll get it just to try it out and see what it's like.

Got it in, took a 5lb dumbbell and attached it, and holy fvcking sh!t...after 2 times up and down my forearms felt like they were on fire on both sides. Made it to 5 times up and down and my forearms were tore up from the floor up for the rest of the day.

Have been using it the last week and it's crazy how effective this is and how weak my forearms are in comparison to the rest of me.

Highly recommended.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have been using a piece of timber dowelling about 1.5 inch diameter for years
just a threaded "O"ring and a short piece of sash cord and you have the same thing.
 

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the question is does it actually make your forearms bigger/more defined or does it just make them sore

"forearms are like calves, you either got em or you don't"- 2pac
 

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the question is does it actually make your forearms bigger/more defined or does it just make them sore

"forearms are like calves, you either got em or you don't"- 2pac
They are highly effective with continual increase in overload. They force both the flexors and extensors to have continuous muscle tension (time under tension) and as long as you are increasing the weight being used regularly the muscle has no say in the matter really.

It's simply a repose to external stimuli.
 

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really common issue for white collar. many blue collar men have really strong forearms. welders, blacksmith, mechanics. go to a custom upholstery shop and look at the guy stretching the fabric onto the frames.... keyboards just don't build muscle.

sounds like a good solution. I'll likely try it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've never really trained forearms that actively which admittedly has been a blind spot over the years.

Saw a Wrist Roller pop up while I was on Amazon, it was like $15 and had 4.7 stars from hundreds of reviews, so I was like, fvck it, I'll get it just to try it out and see what it's like.

Got it in, took a 5lb dumbbell and attached it, and holy fvcking sh!t...after 2 times up and down my forearms felt like they were on fire on both sides. Made it to 5 times up and down and my forearms were tore up from the floor up for the rest of the day.

Have been using it the last week and it's crazy how effective this is and how weak my forearms are in comparison to the rest of me.

Highly recommended.
Double that with punching drills on a Makiwara board and you'll REALLY get some chiseled Greek statuesque forearms! Sensei had us use the wrist rollers each class. He'd make you do an additional up/down if he caught anyone "wobbling" side to side (not keeping the spindle level with the floor) to cheat!
 

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Happy to report that based on my newest scans, my forearms have already grown 0.6 inches from last scan.

Compounding growth over time will be pretty great with this is seems.
 

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What one do you recommend. Admittedly my forearms have always been a weak poing
 

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What one do you recommend. Admittedly my forearms have always been a weak poing
I just got a $15 one on Amazon that had really high ratings. Has a strap that you can attach whatever in between or around
 

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Cool i ended up ordering one
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've never really trained forearms that actively which admittedly has been a blind spot over the years.

Saw a Wrist Roller pop up while I was on Amazon, it was like $15 and had 4.7 stars from hundreds of reviews, so I was like, fvck it, I'll get it just to try it out and see what it's like.

Got it in, took a 5lb dumbbell and attached it, and holy fvcking sh!t...after 2 times up and down my forearms felt like they were on fire on both sides. Made it to 5 times up and down and my forearms were tore up from the floor up for the rest of the day.

Have been using it the last week, and it's crazy how effective this is and how weak my forearms are in comparison to the rest of me.

Highly recommended.
Hey BITG, any update on your wrist roller workout?
How much did you progress since you started, How many sets are you doing, How many rep ' , How much the forearm grown in size ? How often do you work out with the wrist roller?
Cheers
 
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