"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to take control of my own frame with provocation

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I got this girl-friend who had given me condoms twice this month. she gives it during school with her friend, i also shared my threesome adventure during a hike and now she asks me to join her jog but i insisted that we hike since she wants me to be in her jog spot. later that texts i asked her a rubber with a provocation that i can sense that she's giving me signs. now im in the waiting game
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The **** are you talking about?

Frame in context basically means maintaining your own interpretation and not getting thrown off by people's reactions. If her passing you condoms really bothers you, then stop letting her actions dictate your state of mind and simply decide what you want to do about it instead of letting it send you into an analysis spiral.
 

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I got this girl-friend who had given me condoms twice this month. she gives it during school with her friend, i also shared my threesome adventure during a hike and now she asks me to join her jog but i insisted that we hike since she wants me to be in her jog spot. later that texts i asked her a rubber with a provocation that i can sense that she's giving me signs. now im in the waiting game
Hey @Novice1 is it safe to assume English is not your native language?

By saying you "got this girl friend," do you mean "female friend" versus girlfriend like in a romantic relationship?

And what you're trying to determine is if you're reading her signals correctly and she's into you and wants to have sex with you?

You threw the idea out there hoping to provoke a response, the ball is in her court and as such you're now playing the waiting game?

Can you clarify?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The **** are you talking about?

Frame in context basically means maintaining your own interpretation and not getting thrown off by people's reactions. If her passing you condoms really bothers you, then stop letting her actions dictate your state of mind and simply decide what you want to do about it instead of letting it send you into an analysis spiral.
Will ignore her nonsense, im taking my swimming technique seriously
 
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