Hi friends, some things have happened to me in the last year, and I'd like to discuss with you the feeling I had, which I felt at that time.
1) A female colleague (15 years older than me) and I were alone for a moment because everyone was away, and she got a cup of tea from the machine and came into my room to ask me something work-related. Afterwards, she started talking about how her grandfather, who was supposedly the brother of the company boss, had a secret affair and a secret life in the past, and how he was good at keeping it a secret for over 20 years until he was discovered.
She didn't show any changes in her voice, body language, or tone, but my instinct in this situation told me that she wanted to cheat on her husband (she's married) with me at that moment.
I acted as if nothing had happened and simply said, to reply to what that man did, "It's not in my values to do that, but I understand that some people do it, and it's perfectly normal for them."
2) I manage a vacation rental, so I have to clean from time to time. My mother usually does it, but one week, she was out, so we had to call a cleaner. This woman (20 years older than me), who's known me since I was a child, since her daughter (5 years younger than me) had a crush on me in the past.
Given this, while we were cleaning the house, and I was helping her with the cleaning, she started telling me about how the neighbor once called her a wh0re and a sl0t, and insulted her because he thought she was cheating on her husband and hiding it. Again, no change in body language or tone of voice. But again, my instincts told me that this woman wanted me to f8ck her.
Now, these women might be ignoring me after the events, because I failed to pick up on their cues, or they might consider me even harder to get because I'm playing dumb. I don't know.
One thing is certain: women expect men to do all the work, so they can be exonerated if anything goes wrong. They don't want to take responsibility for their actions.
Rather than directly inviting me to f0ck, they do it this sneaky way.
Then it's the men responsability to accept the risk of the whole thing, an angry "bluepilled" husband over the horizon, just for the sake of having f8cked a 45 old woman? AHAhahahah no thanks!
This, eventually, also made me realize I'm a very attractive guy, because these two ways you mentioned are just two of many other examples that happen to me in real life. I know for a fact that women are throwing other clues at me, but I'm too focused on other things and not compromising my values to **** these women who are already in a relationship. I'd rather focus on the single ones.
1) A female colleague (15 years older than me) and I were alone for a moment because everyone was away, and she got a cup of tea from the machine and came into my room to ask me something work-related. Afterwards, she started talking about how her grandfather, who was supposedly the brother of the company boss, had a secret affair and a secret life in the past, and how he was good at keeping it a secret for over 20 years until he was discovered.
She didn't show any changes in her voice, body language, or tone, but my instinct in this situation told me that she wanted to cheat on her husband (she's married) with me at that moment.
I acted as if nothing had happened and simply said, to reply to what that man did, "It's not in my values to do that, but I understand that some people do it, and it's perfectly normal for them."
2) I manage a vacation rental, so I have to clean from time to time. My mother usually does it, but one week, she was out, so we had to call a cleaner. This woman (20 years older than me), who's known me since I was a child, since her daughter (5 years younger than me) had a crush on me in the past.
Given this, while we were cleaning the house, and I was helping her with the cleaning, she started telling me about how the neighbor once called her a wh0re and a sl0t, and insulted her because he thought she was cheating on her husband and hiding it. Again, no change in body language or tone of voice. But again, my instincts told me that this woman wanted me to f8ck her.
Now, these women might be ignoring me after the events, because I failed to pick up on their cues, or they might consider me even harder to get because I'm playing dumb. I don't know.
One thing is certain: women expect men to do all the work, so they can be exonerated if anything goes wrong. They don't want to take responsibility for their actions.
Rather than directly inviting me to f0ck, they do it this sneaky way.
Then it's the men responsability to accept the risk of the whole thing, an angry "bluepilled" husband over the horizon, just for the sake of having f8cked a 45 old woman? AHAhahahah no thanks!
This, eventually, also made me realize I'm a very attractive guy, because these two ways you mentioned are just two of many other examples that happen to me in real life. I know for a fact that women are throwing other clues at me, but I'm too focused on other things and not compromising my values to **** these women who are already in a relationship. I'd rather focus on the single ones.
